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Background

We are a happily married coloured couple that had our first experience 6 years ago.4 years into our original arrangement was to try the swinging in a small town made it hard for us to meet up with couples/single females so we haven't had the pleasure of a full swinging experience fmf... However since 2012 we had the pleasure to meet up with 4 well hung white chaps that brought a lot of spice to our marraige and one of them have had the pleasure to be her fuck buddy for the last 3 has become more of a friend these days and makes her squirt everytime they fuck. Obv i am on the smaller side and am not able to give the same pleasure.

Advice

So heres the thing...listen i really enjoy watching her get fucked silly and i love the fact that she gets so lost in her experiences with them.I also know the term cuckold comes into play. She admits that she loves to be filled size wise and that i cant satisfy her in the same she insists that its just a fuck.I know my wife and the fact that she is not into the whole humiliating thing and she just appreciate me sharing her is the only thing that makes me a bit uneasy about the whole lifestyle. 

I want to know... Am i just lucky?shared wives like mine actually exist?should we carry on with the same arrangement or should i expose her to the real facts of a cuckold wife?we are currently chatting to two guys and it looks like a meet up next she's def still showing more interest. 

I know this thread might sound silly but i was really just wondering

never had one fight about our lifestyle since we started. 



Sexlightened
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yea, just remember that if you expose her to the full cuckold scene, you might never be able to bang your own wife again. I am not very well hung nor am I small, but sex between my wife and myself, is still the best sex. the swinging part is just to spice it up. I also am one of those lucky ones who share my wife with other guys. I like to watch, but I cant watch the whole night. I have arranged guys for her 3 times while I was at work. I got some pics and vids, and man oh man, when I get home.........

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Thanx for your feedback...and man oh man the one day i could not make it on time..by the time i met up with them here at home i found them in a 69 position. I walked in and between breaths i just got a wife high fived me and rest was history. I was forced to stay. I COULD not go back to work on time because they decided to fuck like rabbits up until 12pm

Sexlightened
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Our thing is my wife likes watching bi men do me, then has them do her. But she only enjoys extra large equipped men who are few and far between. But if a bloke is extremely huge she is willing to have him to herself while I watch, but he must be painfully large as she puts it.

We comfortable in this time out fun but battle to find genuine male play mates.

Warming the Bed
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@ kullip_69 Hi there.

 I have read your original post a couple of times and I am still unclear as to what you are uneasy about. "BUT she insists that its just a fuck.I know my wife and the fact that she is not into the whole humiliating thing and she just appreciate me sharing her is the only thing that makes me a bit uneasy about the whole lifestyle."  

Do you want to be cuckolded? If the answer is Yes then I see you might have a problem because she might not be that into it, not being that dominant or into humiliation, but the only step forward, in my mind, is to discuss the situation with your wife and take it from there. And yes you are lucky to have a wife who is not only open to discussing this sort of issue but is also willing to play along!

If you just want to share her so she can have the sexual variety that she seems you enjoy and you want to get pleasure from watching her or hearing about the event at a later date, then i would say you have the close to ideal wife. Ideal would be if she took a break every now and then to get you an ice cold beer!

I wish you all the best.

Master of Sex
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We exist and are definitely out here.


For the most part we have done the threesome thing, but recently I've found myself a couple of regular fuck buddies. Sometimes it's a threesome, but if our schedules line up nicely, K gets videos of me having a wonderful time.


Our sex life really does flourish even more after I've had fun with other guys. He loves seeing me enjoy myself, and I love the variety.


That being said, I'm not a fan of the term "Shared wife". I'm not a piece of property that is owned or shared by anyone. 

I'm a married women who enjoys a variety of sexual partners, and is open about this. The sex I have with other people is intricately spoken about, disected and enjoyed within my marriage.

Forum Virgin
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dear Mrs K, I am keen to allow my wife to have sex with another male to enjoy variety.  She says she is not really keen but we have soft swapped.  Any words of advice.  Not wanting to pressure her at all

Warming the Bed
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It is absolutely just the best to watch my wife enjoying herself and having fun. It is a real turn on. And I think that both of us benefit from this. It is so erotic and sexy. My wife just loves it. And afterwards at home we can't get enough of each other. Just pure sexsitement

Sexlightened
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My best fuck is after a big dick guy fuck my wife we both very horny after she was fucked and then she really wants more and sometimes call him back for more.