After which, I had to send a message to the author, because... well I had to share a sexy suggestion!
He wrote so honestly about the thought process he had about his wife's experience I felt I had to share my experiences with him, but as I wrote I thought perhaps other people would like to read this too.. so here you go.
Here's my message to him:
Hey there
Just read your swinger club stories! Very cool.
btw - you are right, a woman can absolutely train herself to have a vaginal orgasm.
the reason why a bigger penis is going to have a different effect is because, by definition, it has a different shape, so it presses in different places than yours, of course a same-size but different shape (curve) or a different position has the same effect... so, to give you some good news: may I suggest you experiment with positions until you find the one that has your penis hitting her gspot, which preferably still gives your hands access to her clit or nipples or whatever part of her is most sensitive to your fondling. From your description, I calculate you are similar size to my husband, and we found (accidentally due to him being forced to lie flat on his back after a back operation) that "her on top straddling guy", was the PERFECT position for the tip of him to be rubbing quite firmly on my g spot. And with the help of a little buzzing egg to "prime" my clit for about a minute (before hand during foreplay) and a dollop of decent lube, he can make me cum in about 3 minutes! Like a freight train - if we've been flirting or teasing each other for a while before hand; I noticed that his orgasms intensified massively when ever I had "wound him up a bit" before by teasing him or making seductive remarks and naughty suggestions), turns out - delightfully the effect is catchy!
Hope this is a helpful suggestion...
PS. We progressed to squirting after that , and we found "doggy-style over the 'too-high' kitchen counter", the exact right angle to make large puddles on the kitchen floor! So cool... Never underestimate the value of a change of location in making the orgasm more earth shattering! We're not sure what we're going to discover next
There is nothing more liberating for a sensual (as apposed to romantic) woman than a man who allows her to be free in her sexuality. If you flirt with her she WILL respond, complimenting is not flirting... Flirting needs to indicate DESIRE, WANT, LUST. But be careful not to treat her like an object - aim for a vibe of "worship" - or rather savouring - like when you salivate after good food - a woman wants to be salivated over, told how delicious she looks, and craved for...
Please note- you need to make certain that your efforts make her feel like you must have HER sexually, rather than you must have SEX.
The feeling of being DESIRED will unleash that sex kitten you always wanted to be married to, always suspected was just under the surface... You'll thank me for this nugget boys...
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Oh I have a theory that being desired turns the more hard core romantic into a sensualist.... but you guys with romantic wives will have to tell me if I'm right when you mail me to tell me you want your profile changed to "couple" coz your wife wants to swing now :)
