After a long debate I decided to post something here. I have been in the Lifestyle for about 2 years now. And I am shocked by the behaviour of some "men" on here. Is this happening because this is a free site or do some men think it is a FREE for all? At first it seemed like a nice site. But now .......!!!!!!!!!!. Then in all fairness it is not the site - Rather certain types of males that acts so disgustingly.
I am a paying member on a few other sites as well, although under another "nick". Some people here knows me from other sites. I use the nick "nimph" there.
Why can't some men - married and or single and then the supposedly couples take "NO" for an answer.
I receive a lot of messages from people, single guys, couples and then married guys -(although I have made it clear in my profile that I am not interested in Married guys) who want to talk, meet etc. At least some guys have the balls to say they are married and that they are playing without consent.
It has happend a few times now that I responded by telling them that I am not interested and most have accepted this. Thank u gentlemen for that.
Then a few others just can not take "no" for an answer. They get abusive, rude and downright personal. It actually borders on "Defamation of character". They pose as couples and send u messages. U respond. They gave out cellphone numbers and ask u to contact them. When u start asking questions, they duck and dive. I am a straight forward individual. I do not lie about anything in my profile.
I have my own reasons for not playing at my home. I respect other people and their rules and boundries. I expect the same. All of us have rules and likes and dislikes.
Then u get the persons who do not have pics or albums. And it certainly is everybodies right what he puts on his profile- but please do not ask me to view my albums if u do not have albums of your own. Again when one refuse them access u are called names, they are rude and get abusive and personal. I really pity u.
I am not a rude person at all, but now I am feeling like telling a few people to go and Fu@k them selves. On the other hand then I will steep to their level and I refuse to do that. I have already reported a few profiles but goodness - I am sure Admin is going to get sick of me for reporting these profiles.
I am actually thinking off deleting my profile here. I am so dissapointed. Thank u for the lovely people of whom I've had the privilege to meet.
So gentlemen - please read this carefully. Especially the fake ones and the cheaters. I have come to a decision now that I won't even waste my time to reply on ur messages. I will just delete it. And I will keep on reporting u pathetic soles. Especially u...... who is so insecure that u have to abuse another person when they do not want to go along with what u want or when they refuse. (Big mouth small cock syndrome it seems).
I have also thought about posting your profile names so other people can be aware of the type of person u are. Will have to clear it with admin first though. But I will make it known to the people in my friends group. U can be assured of that.
Please feel free to post ur views on this. It is high time we get rid of these pathetic soles. And the only way of doing that is to expose them for what they are. They give other people a bad reputation and the site as well.
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Rudeness!!!!!!!!!!!
Sexyslut,I know and respect as a person,she is not someone who will just get cross about nonsense.
So people YOU are being rude to her, if you abuse her verbally whether it is via mails or phone.
NO ONE has the right to demand we as ladies do something or anything for you ...
you being a single male single female or couple or someone posing as single.....
We as women have the RIGHT to decide with whom we share our bodies and our time.
WE DO NOT HAVE TO DO ANYTHING we do NOT want to.
I have no qualms using abusive words,after all I have a gutter mouth..so for Sexyslut I will say *fuck off* you indecent people.
If you can not respect us here how are you going to respect yourself??So show respect to any woman and gent here on site.
Lets enjoy this site ,as it is here for us to enjoy.
Thank you to the owners and the site moderators.
Lady Sexyslut,you just keep your chin up, we who know you, have the utmost respect for you as a lady.
Hi Sexyslut,
As a gentleman and as a married man - But more so as a new Moderator on this site. I appreciate and totally understand your gripes and your comments. Probably the main reason I have elected to be a moderator on this site.
My main aim on this site is to make it a place for freedom of sexual expression - BUT with the bounds of respect, polite, and mannered conduct. The golden rule as I understand this lifestyle is - Women Rule. Therefore No means No.
So going forward, if you are pestered, abused or not listened to, please can I ask you to let me or any of ther admin or moderators know. We too want to stop this nonsense.
Many Thanks
Quote by Pussinboots1
Sexyslut,I know and respect as a person,she is not someone who will just get cross about nonsense.
So people YOU are being rude to her, if you abuse her verbally whether it is via mails or phone.
NO ONE has the right to demand we as ladies do something or anything for you ...
you being a single male single female or couple or someone posing as single.....
We as women have the RIGHT to decide with whom we share our bodies and our time.
WE DO NOT HAVE TO DO ANYTHING we do NOT want to.
I have no qualms using abusive words,after all I have a gutter mouth..so for Sexyslut I will say *fuck off* you indecent people.
If you can not respect us here how are you going to respect yourself??So show respect to any woman and gent here on site.
Lets enjoy this site ,as it is here for us to enjoy.
Thank you to the owners and the site moderators.
Lady Sexyslut,you just keep your chin up, we who know you, have the utmost respect for you as a lady.
my Lady. Ur comments is much appreciated.
Mwa.
Quote by 267couple
Hi Sexyslut,
As a gentleman and as a married man - But more so as a new Moderator on this site. I appreciate and totally understand your gripes and your comments. Probably the main reason I have elected to be a moderator on this site.
My main aim on this site is to make it a place for freedom of sexual expression - BUT with the bounds of respect, polite, and mannered conduct. The golden rule as I understand this lifestyle is - Women Rule. Therefore No means No.
So going forward, if you are pestered, abused or not listened to, please can I ask you to let me or any of ther admin or moderators know. We too want to stop this nonsense.
Many Thanks
Thank u 267Couple that u took the time to read my post and to take the time to respond.
I think the biggest problem with these so called indivuduals is, is that they are not in the Lifestyle nor serious about it. They think woman in the Lifestyle are whores and sluts and that it is a free for all. I just wonder how they can respect themselves if they can not even respect another individuals wishes and a woman as such.
I will definately keep on reporting such behaviour.
Thank u.
Orgasminator
It would be lousy from me as a mod not to respond to this, wouldt be nice to give my opinion in afrikaans because every on in the site knew my english or put it my tenses are very bad but let it be i will try and do it out of respect.
The topic been race are right or wrong but as you said sexyslut you did stop reporting some of the abuse feeling admin wil get tired of your complains thats the problem. If people stop reporting this type of behaviour it became something like parrasites they think they have won the first time they can go on.
As 'n mod of SH i can give you my word i will do every thinh in my power and the help of Admin to bring justice to people who couldt not behave them and will never stop doing it i will rather resign and get out of the site if it did not happen.
Last word i will doe this for every member on the site because my loyety is with this site the best one in Sh and that my opinion
Thank u 267Couple that u took the time to read my post and to take the time to respond.
I think the biggest problem with these so called indivuduals is, is that they are not in the Lifestyle nor serious about it. They think woman in the Lifestyle are whores and sluts and that it is a free for all. I just wonder how they can respect themselves if they can not even respect another individuals wishes and a woman as such.
I will definately keep on reporting such behaviour.
Thank u.
The topic been race are right or wrong but as you said sexyslut you did stop reporting some of the abuse feeling admin wil get tired of your complains thats the problem. If people stop reporting this type of behaviour it became something like parrasites they think they have won the first time they can go on.
As 'n mod of SH i can give you my word i will do every thinh in my power and the help of Admin to bring justice to people who couldt not behave them and will never stop doing it i will rather resign and get out of the site if it did not happen.
Last word i will doe this for every member on the site because my loyety is with this site the best one in Sh and that my opinion
Quote by sexyslut
Hi Sexyslut,
As a gentleman and as a married man - But more so as a new Moderator on this site. I appreciate and totally understand your gripes and your comments. Probably the main reason I have elected to be a moderator on this site.
My main aim on this site is to make it a place for freedom of sexual expression - BUT with the bounds of respect, polite, and mannered conduct. The golden rule as I understand this lifestyle is - Women Rule. Therefore No means No.
So going forward, if you are pestered, abused or not listened to, please can I ask you to let me or any of ther admin or moderators know. We too want to stop this nonsense.
Many Thanks
Thank u 267Couple that u took the time to read my post and to take the time to respond.
I think the biggest problem with these so called indivuduals is, is that they are not in the Lifestyle nor serious about it. They think woman in the Lifestyle are whores and sluts and that it is a free for all. I just wonder how they can respect themselves if they can not even respect another individuals wishes and a woman as such.
I will definately keep on reporting such behaviour.
Thank u.
Quote by Paartielus
It would be lousy from me as a mod not to respond to this, wouldt be nice to give my opinion in afrikaans because every on in the site knew my english or put it my tenses are very bad but let it be i will try and do it out of respect.
The topic been race are right or wrong but as you said sexyslut you did stop reporting some of the abuse feeling admin wil get tired of your complains thats the problem. If people stop reporting this type of behaviour it became something like parrasites they think they have won the first time they can go on.
As 'n mod of SH i can give you my word i will do every thinh in my power and the help of Admin to bring justice to people who couldt not behave them and will never stop doing it i will rather resign and get out of the site if it did not happen.
Last word i will doe this for every member on the site because my loyety is with this site the best one in Sh and that my opinion
Paartielus
Thank u for ur reply.
I do appreciate it. But the damage has already been done. I wrote u a message why I am saying this.
I can just say one thing - I have never ever been treated like this and to top that now I am being accused of things I never even did. All just because a pig or some pigs on here does not have respect for a woman and for the Lifestyle. Because they have been rejected and can not take "no" for an answer.
As they say - fight fire with fire. I am a fighter and I will not stand for this.
Hi Sexyslut,
As a gentleman and as a married man - But more so as a new Moderator on this site. I appreciate and totally understand your gripes and your comments. Probably the main reason I have elected to be a moderator on this site.
My main aim on this site is to make it a place for freedom of sexual expression - BUT with the bounds of respect, polite, and mannered conduct. The golden rule as I understand this lifestyle is - Women Rule. Therefore No means No.
So going forward, if you are pestered, abused or not listened to, please can I ask you to let me or any of ther admin or moderators know. We too want to stop this nonsense.
Many Thanks
Thank u 267Couple that u took the time to read my post and to take the time to respond.
I think the biggest problem with these so called indivuduals is, is that they are not in the Lifestyle nor serious about it. They think woman in the Lifestyle are whores and sluts and that it is a free for all. I just wonder how they can respect themselves if they can not even respect another individuals wishes and a woman as such.
I will definately keep on reporting such behaviour.
Thank u.
