Am I mistaken or is it a contradiction:-
In a lifestyle where the ladies make the rules, why is it that most of the profile pics are that of ladies and often very intimate in nature...??
One would think that the ladies (as the rule makers) would dictate as to what degree of intimacy (pictures) would be accepted as public and the rest be in their private folders available only on request or on offer to specific individuals.
I'm wondering as to the ratio of husband vs. wife posting as couples.
Just a thought crossing my overactive mind early on a Monday morning...
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Thats my own opinion that most of the pics of the wifes is that they did not new there pics is on the profiles.
We see it every day that wife contact us with the request that there pics must be removed from there partners profile because they catch them out that they do it with out there permission
As the lady from our profile I kinda agree that we should be ones managing our pics...or even like me. I am most on the site, hubbi sometimes will be present when in chatroom, but I'm the one answering mails, having look at other profiles and so on. The photos we upload we usually discuss 2gether so that neither feel as if the other are putting them on display since that is what some pics look like. Now don't get me wrong if the lady or gent is a great looker or comfortable with themselves, post semi nude or teasing nude pics. It's now an auction or cattle buy where goods need to be inspected before we make contact, I feel a pic of gent in undies or cleverly placed item make me more willing to respond to a message positively than just another picture of a cock.
But thats how I see it...and asking to se private pics if they have not even got one public one is just rude!
This is an Age old debate on any swinger site really,why do the ladies photos gets posted and not the gents.
The usual answer is that the males feel their ladies are sexier and more alluring than they are.
Me, I love females as much as men,BUT already I HAVE THIS PROBLEM,should I post sexy men as I do post sexy women, the people who already think I am male,will then be even more determined to insist, that I am one ,and not the old lady I say I am.
And should anyone take the time to READ my profile I state very clearly it is not always me on the pics.
And anyone can say what they want to say,but we are *luring fish with the bait* with the pics..
me, I like teasing so I enjoy I know the gents like seeing new pics daily.
me, I like teasing so I enjoy I know the gents like seeing new pics daily. 
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