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This morning I received a message from someone on the site asking to trade pics even if we will probably never meet….. HALLO, they are private for a reason. Now we love looking at pictures as much as the next person, but there is enough online sites for perving if you simply want pictures to look at. What is the use of show me yours and I'll show you mine if we will not have the opportunity to ever meet? I have read a profile of a very outspoken lady, she'll know who she is, and I agree with her. You can send me your pics if you want, I'll probably be polite and delete the invite if I did not ask for it or even chatted to you before, but don't expect the same in return…. Now that said, what really gets me up in arms are people asking to see private pics even when they don't have public pics on their own profiles!!! If I wanted you to perve them I would have put them in our public album, why must I show you if you're not willing to even have one of your own. It does not have to be a revealing picture; simply of you fully clothed even will work since it shows you're serious about it and not simply collecting pictures… And yes, guys us ladies appreciate looking at your privates, but I personally like looking at shoulders and chest. O and of course a very kissable mouth…there are so much more to see than just what is in your pants. wink It will take some chatting and the possibility of maybe meeting sometime for fun before we will be willing to open up our albums to you. O and yes, it is us in the pictures…is it not part of our site rules not to post pics of other people on our profiles? Even if it was not, have some discretion if someone trusted you enough to play with you AND let you take pictures…keep it for you private collection. A sweet reminder of the fun you had and may still have. Well that's my ten cents about a pet peeve I found since being on the site. Thanks to all those who are serious about the lifestyle and who probably understand what I'm peeved about.
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I fully understand your peeve, Private is Private and for those you are going to meet. I think sending your face or any other photo of you to anyone dangerous,you have NO control what is being done with it or to it..the *to it* is still okay,me being kinky and all. But one day you might just see your face blasted all over the internet. so it is dangerous for anyone who has to be careful. I think even if photos are taken while you are playing....the person whom you are playing with should ask...and also be polite enough to REMOVE face and anything anyone can identify you personally. There is something called photo shop for that. I find it funny that people sent invites to their private albums and ask to see yours...and what HAPPENS.... their albums are EMPTY!!!! Man if that is not being sneaky , I do not know what sneaky is.
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Skiet my maar ek vrkies afrikaans. Ek kan nie meer as saam stem nie, die probleem as jy nuut aansluit by 'n site dan dink en glo jy dit is hoe dinge gedoen word maar met 'n groot ontnugtering word jy wakker geskud, gewoonlik met 'n skok en gevolge. Dit gaan my verstand te bowe dat 'n mens waarmee jy eintlik nog nie gesels het nie kan vra vir photo's soos PnB dit te reg stel daar is baie porn site waar jy kan gaan kyk na enige iets onder die son. Ons het die besluit geneem en wees verseker ons het duur skool geld betaal, geen album word oop gemaak as ons 'n versoek kry nie, sal dit eers oorweeg as die persoon wat die versoek rig sy albums oop maak. Dit is mos 'n feit hy rig die versoek so jy kan dit begin doen. Verder sal ons dan niks meer wys as wat hy wys nie. Maar iets wat ek nie kan verstaan en ongelukkig sit ek in die posisie dat ek foto's moet goedkeur dat een mense soveel foto's van sy eie geslagsdeel op sit, hoekom hy verander mos nie so na hoeveel wil jy nou he moet hulle kyk, as jy dit wil doen verander die posisie die agtergrond en of self die jock strap wat op jou kniee hang. Dan die grap van die dag isas mense in hulle profile aandui hulle is getroud en hulle vrou se besonderhede is ook op die profile, maar hulle neem hulle self af in die spieel. Dit is mos 'n bewys sy metgesel weet nie waarmee hy besig is nie want sy sou 'n baie beter foto kon neem. Maar glo nog foto's is iets baie persoonlik en moet soos goud bewaar word.
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Who actually cares about the rules from posting pictures????? There are so many downloads in the profiles that it is almost funny. People must think that oter are stupid but regarding to the rules is that more the fact with the people who approve them. If we see a download, we don't even bother to contact.
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If you see a download and are certain then report it, we categorise pics as adult/non adult and remove anything dodgy, obvious celebs, but have no way to determine what is genuine, if you are able to identify where the pic came from it will also help.
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This morning I received a message from someone on the site asking to trade pics even if we will probably never meet….. HALLO, they are private for a reason. Now we love looking at pictures as much as the next person, but there is enough online sites for perving if you simply want pictures to look at. What is the use of show me yours and I'll show you mine if we will not have the opportunity to ever meet?
I have read a profile of a very outspoken lady, she'll know who she is, and I agree with her. You can send me your pics if you want, I'll probably be polite and delete the invite if I did not ask for it or even chatted to you before, but don't expect the same in return….
Now that said, what really gets me up in arms are people asking to see private pics even when they don't have public pics on their own profiles!!! If I wanted you to perve them I would have put them in our public album, why must I show you if you're not willing to even have one of your own. It does not have to be a revealing picture; simply of you fully clothed even will work since it shows you're serious about it and not simply collecting pictures…
And yes, guys us ladies appreciate looking at your privates, but I personally like looking at shoulders and chest. O and of course a very kissable mouth…there are so much more to see than just what is in your pants. wink
It will take some chatting and the possibility of maybe meeting sometime for fun before we will be willing to open up our albums to you.
O and yes, it is us in the pictures…is it not part of our site rules not to post pics of other people on our profiles? Even if it was not, have some discretion if someone trusted you enough to play with you AND let you take pictures…keep it for you private collection. A sweet reminder of the fun you had and may still have.
Well that's my ten cents about a pet peeve I found since being on the site. Thanks to all those who are serious about the lifestyle and who probably understand what I'm peeved about.

Could not agree with u ://
And if u refuse - u get abuse.
I actually pity some people. Instead off abuse , why dont they just appologise. It is rude anyway, to just ask to view pics if u did not take the time to chat and get to know the other person. And off course if u dont have an album of your own.
Thank goodness we are not all the same.
Expose those who download pics from sites. It is these types that gives the Lifestyle and honest decent single men out there a bad reputation.
So peeps- take care and be safe - Always.