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Pregnant and remain Swinging.

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I was talking to someone about being PREGNANT AND SWINGING. In all my years I have never met a lady who  is pregnant who still participates with/in swinging. Usually most couples takes a break when they find they are pregnant.

However, HOW  Open minded are you and how do you feel about meeting couples who is Pregnant and want to meet up for some fun?
I also found  this topic was discussed on one of my other swingers sites....and this is what some of the  people said about this.  WHAT is your view??
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 Is this really a thing? Pregnant women who actually go to parties to swing?!   

I will say that it would freak me out if I did. 

 I will admit I am a little weird for this but pregnant women turn me on. Even if I couldn't play with her, if I could watch her!!!!!! 

What is wrong with people! Can women seriously not take themselves out of the lifestyle for the short time they are pregnant? That's sick to think about women having sex (even if it's not intercourse) with other men during their pregnancy.  

I say live and let live. What's the big deal? I have seen a pregnant woman in a swing club before. I do not know if she actually played but it's really none of our business. As long as she's not hurting anyone what's all the fuss? 

Not hurting anyone when a pregnant woman plays with someone other than her husband? I beg to differ. She is hurting her baby and her marriage. Is there nothing sacred anymore? Allowing another man to penetrate you when you are pregnant is sick 

 Why the hell are you even having a baby? Children don't deserve to be brought into the middle of such a dysfunctional situation. I have nothing against swinging but I do when kids are involved in the equation. 

Why all the judgement? I think it's an individual decision. If a woman feels comfortable to play while pregnant I think she should be free to do as she chooses.   

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AS I was reading the comments I suddenly thought that only a few people appeared Open minded about this, and the one really thought a poor pregnant couple is in a dysfunctional situation  (REALLY??????) why is that person in Swinging if she/he thinks the lifestyle is dysfunctional. And what is the situation then WHEN you swing while having kids at home??? Okay, we all know, MOST couples go out to play and NOT while their kids are home, but still??????Dysfunctional???? because you are a parent????  AND does a Fetus and further along in pregnancies now a Baby, KNOW that the person penetrating the Mom is not the Dad??  Just asking???

Okay What are your thoughts on this???

I myself think,  there must be some people who keep swinging while they are pregnant or trying to become pregnant. There are also other swingers who choose to temporarily take a break from swinging. Both options are acceptable personal choices in my opinion.
Most women don’t appear to be pregnant for several months.  Your attraction should not  be impacted during that time.  Once a lady does start to show signs of being pregnant, some swinger men may be less attracted but other men might become even more attracted with the ladies increased ample bosom and glowing skin. And if we are honest, there are also some men that have a fetish for pregnant ladies.
Many pregnant women can enjoy a robust sex life, but other women might find they are hindered by certain medical conditions. But if your doctor says it is okay, why not?? You should however remember to worry about STD`s. Some STI`s can be passed in utero. As everyone in the lifestyle *HOPEFULLY* is an adult and are true swingers, should understand if you ask for an updated STD report from their doctor. And remain using condoms (hopefully this still is NOT an issue).
You can also remain enjoying the thrill of the swinging lifestyle, think of going back to Soft Swap, or being a voyeur. Even think of going Bisexual...ladies is less likely to give you an STD and any external kissing and touching tends to be a lower risk.

Thus for me, any Pregnant lady/couple should be able to enjoy their lifestyle. and WE as the people who are judgemental should remember that any pregnant lady is part of a BIG joyful Miracle.

Some of the wifes of couples we have played with...   I would shag till the baby kicked me off!  So no qualms on the pregnacy aspects for Mr 2Some.

says sex is safe (assuming its an uncomplicated pregnancy) until the 3 trimester. If the lady is down to play....   shag away!

Don't see anything wrong with it. Pregnant woman are SEXY and a Big Turn On. They are also at their most horny they will ever be.

Some of those comments are so stupid & ignorant but my 3 favourite are

  1. "She is hurting her baby and her marriage"
  2. "Children don't deserve to be brought into the middle of such a dysfunctional situation"
  3. "That's sick to think about women having sex (even if it's not intercourse) with other men during their pregnancy"

1. How is she hurting her marriage or her child by swinging?

2. They do understand that the pregnant woman is not going to give birth while playing and they are just going to carry on playing

3. Why would it be sick to think woman having sex with other men? Simple Solution Dont Think About It Then!

I love how people get worked up and have such strong opinions about something that doesn't affect them at all. 

Nobody is saying that you must try swinging when you are pregnant, but if you want to Go Ahead! If a pregnant woman doesn't turn you on then don't play with her. 

It doesn't matter how much you try to do things the "right" way in society's eyes someone is always going say something negative so i say F#ck-Em it's your life, as long as you having fun and you are happy DO IT!

we were pregnant way back in 2015, we still played a bit, but with a regular couple. people who knew that we had to keep it calm, but it was still a turn on. most guys on here who wanted to play, wanted to play even more when i told them we were pregnant. but, we stop for the last 3 to 4 months, and only started playing again when our baby was about 4 months old. sex was still sex.


oh and mr PoohC, liz was only horny as hell with our first born, the second one, she was not, but still enjoyed sex.

I don't know why, but a pregnant woman is just the most beautiful thing on this green earth.  Everything is accentuated.  I would be honored to be apart of a sensual session with a pregnant goddess.

Thanks for all the comments guys, seems our site is way, way more open minded!!!

@lizaan  I had to smile about the first pregnancy causing Mrs to be more horny, but the second not so much...it is normal most ladies will tell you guys this.

My wife hormones raged during pregnancy. ...and I had to oblidge....To the extent I was having difficulty towards the end....Kept having images flash though my mind of this dented forehead...But have had other liasons and recently shared a wife well into the 3rd...but gentle meaniful play....more like sharing ..caring..and respect..of the event.

I do not have any children of my own so have never had the opportunity to be intimate with a pregnant woman that I know of. If they were they were not showing or I was sure as hell not going to ask. I would be honoured and delighted to have the opportunity to spend intimate time with a woman who is pregnant. 

Some of the comments from the other site really surprised me. Short of falling from a rotating ceiling fan in the last months, there is little that can harm the woman I also believe there are even fewer guys, and I include myself in this category, with the equipment needed to black the eye of an unborn infant.

Anyway I like the idea!

@abe123  You lucky man!!  I had to laugh at the dented head comment though.

@bob969  Yeah, me and you both..no kids and never was pregnant,( Had a hysterectomy in my late 20`s)  I also never played with a pregnant lady. Just Seeing you trying to give the fetus a black eye in my minds-eye here and laughing....

Made me remember about some little pregnancy-doodles/sketches  I saw when I was in my 20`s about babies in a womb...one was knocking back sperm with his little fists...one was moaning about sneezing due to *mom* powdering her Va-jay-jay. There where a bunch of them     all hilarious.....

I would love playing with a pregnant woman. It turns me on hugely.

I find pregnant woman incredibly sexy! Beautiful without doubt! Cant beat that glow!

There's nothing môre attractive than a pregnant woman just the heat and it's just uunbelievable. Wow