I was talking to someone about being PREGNANT AND SWINGING. In all my years I have never met a lady who is pregnant who still participates with/in swinging. Usually most couples takes a break when they find they are pregnant.
However, HOW Open minded are you and how do you feel about meeting couples who is Pregnant and want to meet up for some fun?
I also found this topic was discussed on one of my other swingers sites....and this is what some of the people said about this. WHAT is your view??
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Is this really a thing? Pregnant women who actually go to parties to swing?!
I will say that it would freak me out if I did.
I will admit I am a little weird for this but pregnant women turn me on. Even if I couldn't play with her, if I could watch her!!!!!!
What is wrong with people! Can women seriously not take themselves out of the lifestyle for the short time they are pregnant? That's sick to think about women having sex (even if it's not intercourse) with other men during their pregnancy.
I say live and let live. What's the big deal? I have seen a pregnant woman in a swing club before. I do not know if she actually played but it's really none of our business. As long as she's not hurting anyone what's all the fuss?
Not hurting anyone when a pregnant woman plays with someone other than her husband? I beg to differ. She is hurting her baby and her marriage. Is there nothing sacred anymore? Allowing another man to penetrate you when you are pregnant is sick
Why the hell are you even having a baby? Children don't deserve to be brought into the middle of such a dysfunctional situation. I have nothing against swinging but I do when kids are involved in the equation.
Why all the judgement? I think it's an individual decision. If a woman feels comfortable to play while pregnant I think she should be free to do as she chooses.
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AS I was reading the comments I suddenly thought that only a few people appeared Open minded about this, and the one really thought a poor pregnant couple is in a dysfunctional situation (REALLY??????) why is that person in Swinging if she/he thinks the lifestyle is dysfunctional. And what is the situation then WHEN you swing while having kids at home??? Okay, we all know, MOST couples go out to play and NOT while their kids are home, but still??????Dysfunctional???? because you are a parent???? AND does a Fetus and further along in pregnancies now a Baby, KNOW that the person penetrating the Mom is not the Dad?? Just asking???
Okay What are your thoughts on this???
I myself think, there must be some people who keep swinging while they are pregnant or trying to become pregnant. There are also other swingers who choose to temporarily take a break from swinging. Both options are acceptable personal choices in my opinion.
Most women don’t appear to be pregnant for several months. Your attraction should not be impacted during that time. Once a lady does start to show signs of being pregnant, some swinger men may be less attracted but other men might become even more attracted with the ladies increased ample bosom and glowing skin. And if we are honest, there are also some men that have a fetish for pregnant ladies.
Many pregnant women can enjoy a robust sex life, but other women might find they are hindered by certain medical conditions. But if your doctor says it is okay, why not?? You should however remember to worry about STD`s. Some STI`s can be passed in utero. As everyone in the lifestyle *HOPEFULLY* is an adult and are true swingers, should understand if you ask for an updated STD report from their doctor. And remain using condoms (hopefully this still is NOT an issue).
You can also remain enjoying the thrill of the swinging lifestyle, think of going back to Soft Swap, or being a voyeur. Even think of going Bisexual...ladies is less likely to give you an STD and any external kissing and touching tends to be a lower risk.
Thus for me, any Pregnant lady/couple should be able to enjoy their lifestyle. and WE as the people who are judgemental should remember that any pregnant lady is part of a BIG joyful Miracle.