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"No Single Males", but Male is selected under Seeking

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People, please...

If you have selected "Male" under Seeking, then you have no right to shout at single males for contacting you.

Honestly....

Mixed signals much?

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People, please...

If you have selected "Male" under Seeking, then you have no right to shout at single males for contacting you.

Honestly....

Mixed signals much?

Thank you very much for calling this out! The amount of couples / single ladies that have that option enabled but have the audacity to badmouth single men... its honestly tiring and just hypocritical.

The internet has been around for a long time...Surely its not that difficult to setup a profile correctly especially on a website😵🤦🏻‍♂️

Yes, yes and yes, but pause for a moment if you will . . . The thing is, sometimes people make a mistake, check boxes without realisng etc etc.

If a profile weite up states "no this or that" then it is irrelevant what boxes are ticked.

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Yes, yes and yes, but pause for a moment if you will . . . The thing is, sometimes people make a mistake, check boxes without realisng etc etc.

If a profile weite up states "no this or that" then it is irrelevant what boxes are ticked.

I hear you and there are times that happens. But the algorithm still send these guys to the profile and let's face it, none of them read the description 😄 they just see the media and react to that.

So it is still the responsibility of the profile holder to make sure the correct boxes are ticked under Seeking, and to make sure that their Privacy settings are as they want it. Otherwise it makes the site look like a very angry place with people SHOUTING at people for making unwanted contact.

True story,

There is also the argument that people who don't want "attention" from certain types of people should perhaps not be members on a site that allows the type of people they don't want said attention from. But, (yes, there is a but) 🤣 some people think they should have everything just the way they want it, and fail to realise that their ranting just provokes certain people into irritating them more.

Speaking of ranting, I'll stop now 🤣🤣