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Food for thought.

Always chuckle seeing this NO GAY OR BI MEN on posts.

Fact is I am bi, enjoy male to male either like that or in a couple scenario.

But I estimate 60 percent of men replying  to my adverts  profile says they straight, some even have no bi male wanted on their profile,  but they later explain they ashamed to admit being bi.

So couples the next bloke you play with may not be as straight as you think, but who cares.

As for me in couple play I can be totally respectful of the straight males preferences of no MM contact. 

I am trying to see the point in your post friend or  do you think this is "news" to couples ?

I think the figure (60% ) is much higher in the men contacting us for instance. As you say "who cares "

anyway. We try and play with straight men  only as asked in our profile. If a bisexual man "slips through the cracks"

we would not really mind if we find out afterwards. Just would not play with him again . As long as all had fun icon_mrgreen

Well it was not posted as NEWS or to offend.

If it did, accept my apologies.

Nothing negative intended or implied in my post and you certainly did not offend or need to apologise for anything.

Late to reply .....so sue me....

I always also laugh when people avoid or try to avoid playing with a Bisexual man  but would love to play with a Bisexual female. 

NOW this is MY THOUGH on a people who avoids bisexual men like plague. and NO one has to agree with me and I also am not saying I am totally RIGHT.

A gay man will NEVER EVER Play or Have sex with a female!!!!!! The same can be said of a Lesbian, who will never have sex with a man or play with him. (I am not talking about platonic friendship with ladies or men)

Men and Women are really Homophobic even if they say they are Not and never will be, they are believe me. Or else they do not KNOW the above!!!  Only males and females who is Bisexual will play with both sexes, so where in the world will a bisexual person try and have sex with the partner who is straight?? Specially in this Lifestyle where Rules are the norm.

Now I am replying to this fora because something Johan54 said....Just know, I am NOT bashing him or his views or his comment...this is MY opinion reading the Fora and comments.

I am pasting in.....

*We try and play with straight men  only as asked in our profile. If a bisexual man "slips through the cracks"

we would not really mind if we find out afterwards. Just would not play with him again . As long as all had fun.

Now the, JUST WOULD NOT PLAY WITH HIM AGAIN* is what caught my eye, now a sentence like this comes over as homophobic to me and I am sure many more.  

If what the gent said is true, and EVERYONE had Fun, and NO one overstepped the sexual line of NO Male on Male action, then why will they not play with the gent again???  Sounds Homophobic to me.

I also found that some woman will say they are bisexual...when they are NOT.(if you chat to the lady, you soon learn they only agreed with this title for their hubbies sake) I frequently joined couples where the lady said they are bisexual, and one soon realizes that the lady is most certainly not bisexual at all. I used to stop all play immediately and I usually left without playing, cause no one likes being bullshitted. Up front honesty  is really the rule here.


Homophobic. Is this a bad thing?: Not to me. Our choice afterall  to only mix with other straight people. Don't mind homos and bisexuals  doing their own thing as long as they are not dishonest and pretend they are straight. There are plenty couples that do not mind mixing with bisexuals,homos and whatever. We are very clear about our preference and also very comfortable with our choice. If you don't like it ,ignore,block whatever and move along . 

What I find very intriguing is the number of straight single males that check out my profile.

LOL @the_hedonist. I totally agree with that one!

@ Johan54   Nope you are allowed to have your own views, that is what makes life interesting.

@The_Hedonist   OOOOOkay,  why are you intrigued  about the males checking out your profile??  You do say You are Bi-curious and leaning towards being Bi......Soooo take the plunge and check them out as well!!!!

@LMAO   Now you have me intrigued to have to go check out YOUR profile..... see if you have something about Bi somewhere on your written profile..... 

@ sass8021   man that last comment was meant for you...sorry for the mishap.... anyway  Yep, you are in the clear NO Bi anywhere on your profile.....

What I am intrigued by is the number of STRAIGHT males that check out the profile of a bi-guy. Lag in my mou.

Pussinboots1.

I am openly a bi sexual male, as made clear  in my profile.

About 75 percent of blokes wanting to play MM profiles say they are straight, a few even have anti bi male instructions on them, those are ignored .

The closet bi blokes do not hassle me.

@ The_Hedonist    Well if the *straight* guys check you out...check them out aswell...ONE never knows......LMAO

@Simple4me    As a Previously active Pansexual lady, I have to say the people who are anti Bisexual people or should I say males (as they are NEARLY ALWAYS eager to play with us Bi/Pansexual ladies) Do NOT know what they are missing in life....smiling broadly this side of the computer.



@pussinboots...I have no issues with the guys looking, I just don't participate. I just find it slightly amuzing that all the "straight" guys are looking so "longingly?"...