Late to reply .....so sue me....
I always also laugh when people avoid or try to avoid playing with a Bisexual man but would love to play with a Bisexual female.
NOW this is MY THOUGH on a people who avoids bisexual men like plague. and NO one has to agree with me and I also am not saying I am totally RIGHT.
A gay man will NEVER EVER Play or Have sex with a female!!!!!! The same can be said of a Lesbian, who will never have sex with a man or play with him. (I am not talking about platonic friendship with ladies or men)
Men and Women are really Homophobic even if they say they are Not and never will be, they are believe me. Or else they do not KNOW the above!!! Only males and females who is Bisexual will play with both sexes, so where in the world will a bisexual person try and have sex with the partner who is straight?? Specially in this Lifestyle where Rules are the norm.
Now I am replying to this fora because something Johan54 said....Just know, I am NOT bashing him or his views or his comment...this is MY opinion reading the Fora and comments.
I am pasting in.....
*We try and play with straight men only as asked in our profile. If a bisexual man "slips through the cracks"
we would not really mind if we find out afterwards. Just would not play with him again . As long as all had fun.
Now the, JUST WOULD NOT PLAY WITH HIM AGAIN* is what caught my eye, now a sentence like this comes over as homophobic to me and I am sure many more.
If what the gent said is true, and EVERYONE had Fun, and NO one overstepped the sexual line of NO Male on Male action, then why will they not play with the gent again??? Sounds Homophobic to me.
I also found that some woman will say they are bisexual...when they are NOT.(if you chat to the lady, you soon learn they only agreed with this title for their hubbies sake) I frequently joined couples where the lady said they are bisexual, and one soon realizes that the lady is most certainly not bisexual at all. I used to stop all play immediately and I usually left without playing, cause no one likes being bullshitted. Up front honesty is really the rule here.