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Yes, we all know that size does matter, and we should all by now know that it matters just a little bit more to men than woman, BUT, what about breast size guys? From a realistic point of view, what is ideal for you? A Cup B Cup C Cup D Cup etc etc . . . Personally (that means just for me) breast size is only relevant when the lady is wearing clothing (eye candy) and a B or C works just fine. When naked, I am more than content with whatever is presented.
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Ladies not allowed to answer this one? Anyway I just popped in to ask about the BIGGER sizes going up to Double F cups?? BUT as a True pan-sexual, I most likely also can answer here??? Most ladies I find are more *plastic* these days, and I like natural. Stiff boobies that does not even move a bit is really NOT that lekka to touch and play with. Most enchanted boobs does not have feeling in them anyway, and one has to be carefull NOT to press to hard incase they BURST. I look at some Photos where ladies are posing and they are really beautiful women, but then their boob-jobs spoil the picture.. Someone like me who has large boobs really large boobs, will always want just a handful. But in reality the ladies with smaller boobs are the lucky ones, they are more responsive I think. When motherhood happens they are the one`s able to breast feed their baby more likely than us with larger boobs. I am not saying the ladies with large boobs cannot breast feed but if I think back to my Maternity days...the large ladies really had a hard time.
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Ladies not allowed to answer this one?
Anyway I just popped in to ask about the BIGGER sizes going up to Double F cups??

PIB, I am Bi, so boys and girls welcome . . . lol
Orgasminator
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Going for the bigger cups, not that i actual knew what the cup size are, but as one of our best friends said in afrikaans "so 'n mondtjie vol".
Sexlightened
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I don't care about the size as long as they have nipples that respond.
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And then we have the NO boobs ones (like me!) - where do we fit in? When I had my mastectomy we just couldn't afford the reconstruction and now it is too late - so can't even go 'plastic' now PIB! Oh dear! lol:lol:
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Eish How sad is that Jeanette, My own sister is in the same boat. I hope you know that I was NOT talking about cancer survivors here ,they are allowed to have *plastic* boobies.....even nipples are made for them these days My girlfriends twin sister had a mastectomy two years ago and she has a new plastic booby made without the nipple effect. but she feels good with it. I introduced my sister to swing , and you should read the story I wrote about her fist sensual massage , I can just say she cried after and during that massage cause the gent doing the massage was so kind and soft and gentle with her that she felt wanted for the first time in many many years. Bravo to you for also staying in the lifestyle......You are my hero!!!!
Sexlightened
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From nothing, no nipples, nada, to humungous DDDs, balloonlike or sagging, doesn't matter one iota to me, as long as they're attached to a kinky mind which can recognize another of the same persuasion! It's the mindset that counts, what good is a juicy pussy or a hot pair of tits when they're attached to Mother Theresa (bless her soul)! So there's my 2 cents worth, guess that'll be the end of this! Naughty by nature, kinky by choice.
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I am a smaller breast man. A full B is about the biggest I find attractive. Nicely shaped firm A cups do it for me. C and bigger are still nice and I like all breasts, but if there were a way to choose breast size on any given partner, smaller it will be. Definitely an A cup man here...
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Why will wolfman kill the tread ???????????????
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Eish How sad is that Jeanette, My own sister is in the same boat.
I hope you know that I was NOT talking about cancer survivors here ,they are allowed to have *plastic* boobies.....even nipples are made for them these days My girlfriends twin sister had a mastectomy two years ago and she has a new plastic booby made without the nipple effect. but she feels good with it.
I introduced my sister to swing , and you should read the story I wrote about her fist sensual massage , I can just say she cried after and during that massage cause the gent doing the massage was so kind and soft and gentle with her that she felt wanted for the first time in many many years.
Bravo to you for also staying in the lifestyle......You are my hero!!!!

PIB I had my mastectomy nearly 17 years ago and after years of "abusing" my body my scars are torn and badly stretched so no go for me. I am insecure with my scars but they really don't bother me that much!
I have an amazing husband that couldn't give a damn about my physical appearance so I am one very lucky "old" girl! He too is kind and gentle and OH so sexy with me!
What really drives me insane is the idiots that will insist on seeing my "boobs"! God help me! Can't they read a profile?
Love your stories and your banter on forum and always look forward to reading your latest!
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From nothing, no nipples, nada, to humungous DDDs, balloonlike or sagging, doesn't matter one iota to me, as long as they're attached to a kinky mind which can recognize another of the same persuasion! It's the mindset that counts, what good is a juicy pussy or a hot pair of tits when they're attached to Mother Theresa (bless her soul)!
So there's my 2 cents worth, guess that'll be the end of this!
Naughty by nature, kinky by choice.

can I please ask you to explain what you mean by "killing the thread AGAIN" and also 'that will be the end of this"
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I have given this some thought... I say I prefer smaller ones. I actually wish to change that statement. I think it more about proportion. A skinny girl with a massive pair looks wrong, as does a big girl with bee stings. A tiny girl with a trim body looks perfect with perky little a cups. Proportion as apposed to size in itself makes all the difference. Dolly Parton looks grotesque if you ask me. Look at Natalie Portman - perfect in my view! Small girl, small boobs - yummy!!
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I am a smaller breast man. A full B is about the biggest I find attractive. Nicely shaped firm A cups do it for me. C and bigger are still nice and I like all breasts, but if there were a way to choose breast size on any given partner, smaller it will be. Definitely an A cup man here...

im with Stamina on this one , an A cup works for me , i prefer smaller boobs
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I love all natural boobs and I think they all have their merits, this love may have a tendency to be a bit more for the C cub + side of the scale but the way the boobs are displayed gives them their different attributes, Small boobies size aa through b can be very alluring due to there firmness and then you have a better chance of seeing them in a down blouse or side boob scenario than the larger sizes. the larger sizes definitely have the advantage when it comes to showing cleavage. The perfect pair is banana shaped firm and about a D cub and then I admire Sophie Marceau's boob, think they are stunning. Boobies have proved one thing to me and that is that love is blind. Now do I have to start a new thread for this or may I ask here, how important is it for a lady to have her boobs fondled during foreplay and how sensitive are their boobs to touch?
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From nothing, no nipples, nada, to humungous DDDs, balloonlike or sagging, doesn't matter one iota to me, as long as they're attached to a kinky mind which can recognize another of the same persuasion! It's the mindset that counts, what good is a juicy pussy or a hot pair of tits when they're attached to Mother Theresa (bless her soul)!
So there's my 2 cents worth, guess that'll be the end of this!
Naughty by nature, kinky by choice.

can I please ask you to explain what you mean by "killing the thread AGAIN" and also 'that will be the end of this"
I'm new to the net, in spite of (or maybe due to) having been involved with computers all my life (database design).
I'm new to this site, never participated in a forum before, posted 2 comments on active threads which thereafter went, like, dead! So I got the impression this was sort of a 'closed shop', wrote the above to see whether it would elicit any response! Thanks for same, shall continue to give my 2 cent worth!
Re mammalian protruberances: notwithstanding the above, I must admit I do have my favorites, it's more a matter of shape than size: they cover most of the chest without being bulbous, have smallish aureolas and prominent nipples which point outwards as opposed to straight ahead.
Re your original question, why don't you start a thread titled something like 'hottest titties on site', let all interested people peruse the gallery and vote for their favorite pair, the party with the most votes can then update their profile "voted hottest titties on swinging heaven 2014"
Just an idea!
Sexlightened
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I love all natural boobs and I think they all have their merits, this love may have a tendency to be a bit more for the C cub + side of the scale but the way the boobs are displayed gives them their different attributes,
Small boobies size aa through b can be very alluring due to there firmness and then you have a better chance of seeing them in a down blouse or side boob scenario than the larger sizes. the larger sizes definitely have the advantage when it comes to showing cleavage.
The perfect pair is banana shaped firm and about a D cub and then I admire Sophie Marceau's boob, think they are stunning.
Boobies have proved one thing to me and that is that love is blind.
Now do I have to start a new thread for this or may I ask here, how important is it for a lady to have her boobs fondled during foreplay and how sensitive are their boobs to touch?

Don't know about the new thread, also new here, but re 'boobfondling' my experience has been that in general, as she becomes aroused her requirements change from very gentle massage and nipplekissing to firmer handling, even pinching or grazing of the nipples.
Enjoy
Sex God
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From nothing, no nipples, nada, to humungous DDDs, balloonlike or sagging, doesn't matter one iota to me, as long as they're attached to a kinky mind which can recognize another of the same persuasion! It's the mindset that counts, what good is a juicy pussy or a hot pair of tits when they're attached to Mother Theresa (bless her soul)!
So there's my 2 cents worth, guess that'll be the end of this!
Naughty by nature, kinky by choice.

can I please ask you to explain what you mean by "killing the thread AGAIN" and also 'that will be the end of this"
I'm new to the net, in spite of (or maybe due to) having been involved with computers all my life (database design).
I'm new to this site, never participated in a forum before, posted 2 comments on active threads which thereafter went, like, dead! So I got the impression this was sort of a 'closed shop', wrote the above to see whether it would elicit any response! Thanks for same, shall continue to give my 2 cent worth!
Re mammalian protruberances: notwithstanding the above, I must admit I do have my favorites, it's more a matter of shape than size: they cover most of the chest without being bulbous, have smallish aureolas and prominent nipples which point outwards as opposed to straight ahead.
Re your original question, why don't you start a thread titled something like 'hottest titties on site', let all interested people peruse the gallery and vote for their favorite pair, the party with the most votes can then update their profile "voted hottest titties on swinging heaven 2014"
Just an idea!
Your idea, you should do it by all means.banghead will be interesting to see the response
And welcome, we look forward to reading your inputs
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Now do I have to start a new thread for this or may I ask here, how important is it for a lady to have her boobs fondled during foreplay and how sensitive are their boobs to touch?

Ok, in my experience there is no straight answer to this question, just comparing my female playmates and I, I can give you 4 different answers.
@SDMR, I'm wondering why someone of your vast and varied experience is not aware of the fact that bra cup size is relative; Not all B cups are equal. The cup size is based on the difference between body circumference across the nipple and body circumference around the chest below the breast.
A 28B is a whole different size to a 38B.....
Actually a lot of women don't know this so you're off the hook :twisted:
Sex God
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Now do I have to start a new thread for this or may I ask here, how important is it for a lady to have her boobs fondled during foreplay and how sensitive are their boobs to touch?

Ok, in my experience there is no straight answer to this question, just comparing my female playmates and I, I can give you 4 different answers.
@SDMR, I'm wondering why someone of your vast and varied experience is not aware of the fact that bra cup size is relative; Not all B cups are equal. The cup size is based on the difference between body circumference across the nipple and body circumference around the chest below the breast.
A 28B is a whole different size to a 38B.....
Actually a lot of women don't know this so you're off the hook :twisted:
So just to be clear then LeeEC, you are "accusing" me of having vast and varied experience? REALLY? say it again and let's see if it helps others "like" me . . . . . . please rotflmao:rotflmao:
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You guys are making me feel old again.
In the 80's girls like the natural D cup Samantha Fox ruled the Pinup world.
For the 90's Anna Nicole Smith had to have her's Upsized to DD before she got noticed in spite of her natural stunning beauty at the time.
But that all seems old news now and chemically induced weight loss and bulimia girls are more popular than ever, because it "looks healthy"
When we met, my girl was a curvy D cup teen and I loved it. Then by her mid 20's she became an aerobics bunny and dropped to a B cup. I did not mind to much because she did look more stunning but I did miss my toys.
Roll on another 10 odd years and she is an even more curvy DD and is more fun than ever.
Those that are interested, love it when she rubs them over their delicate parts or smothers their face with them.
One has to be more creative to take a nice body pics though.
As for touch, they like it gentile sometimes but she does often urge you on till it leaves some bruises that she can brag with the next day. Suppose this is not the right site for that kind of thing.
Must say even two of the really well built girls love her as she is now. Even the one that required A Cup implants to create a perfect and slender body, prefers my girl to any of the other girls she played with. If only her hubby could get over his issues.
A 38B has more mass than a 28B but it is proportional so on a pic it will look the same, on similarly built girls. The 38B girl will be much taller. In real life it is stretched over a bigger frame so it does not really feel bigger as it does not present more of a curve.
If the 38B girl is shorter she'll have bigger arms, tummy and hips, so they will actually look smaller on that girl but she'll feel curvy all over.
By the way I object!!!
The 'hottest titties on site' competition implies that girls with big boobs cannot win!
Looks like the 80's are really over. :sad:
Sex God
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By the way I object!!!
The 'hottest titties on site' competition implies that girls with big boobs cannot win!
Looks like the 80's are really over. :sad:

But, if the majority of voters prefer big boobs (such an 80's word) then why can't they win?
And I somehow doubt the 80's will ever fully die, modern day doesn't have enough imagination to come up with very many "better" things
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Of course big boobs stand a good chance of winning but then the title of the competition would be an oxymoron.
Big boobs are not titties
Viva 80's Viva
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Ok, I have a plan to resolve this. All you ladies send me close up pictures and maybe some video of your boobs to my personal e-mail and I will give you all feed back on your sizes and proportions. purely professional - promise. He he he lol
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No no! Something that important cannot have just one judge. Put us on the mailing list too. wink