married men

13 Aug 2012

mm, how to start without being kicked I would like to bring up a subject that might be on everyone's lips, married men on the site without the missus consent. I would love to mention that my wife knows I chat, before I get abolished. The reason why we haven,t made any arrangements yet, is that my wife has a personal issue currently and it might last for another 6 months. I will however chat in the chat room and yes I will perv over your pics ;) and yes might time to time send u a mail. She is well aware of my actions, and yes if you were wondering I love to flirt and I love to talk. I am here to enjoy myself and even have some company - chat - so please do not just assume I am here to have an affair which is absolutely rubbish. I love my wife and will not jeopardize what I have with her, except if maybe you a Jolie or Bullock or whoever is famous lol. Secondly I do read most profiles and understand respect is a huge factor, I will make sure I understand your profile before I either send a mail or chat with you. In a case of couples I dont mind chatting to the hubby although I am straight - so again dont make assumptions that I would rather have the penis? lol MM my mind is starting to wonder and totally of the subject.............please respect that the missus is not online, and I am not here to have an affair - clearly stated - NOT TO HAVE AN AFFAIR. I would love to hear from the seasoned swingers and all the newbies, any thoughts - negative or positive will be appreciated. Single men, please respect my profile also my wife - we can chat but dont get upset if i tell you she is not online! To those who i open our private photos, she is for real and I love the way she looks. So any married men here playing alone I just think it would be fair to all stating that you do play alone - communication is also important. Dont beat around bush - no pun intended - just be honest.

13 Aug 2012

I am married and on this site I play alone and my wife knows If we played as a couple her details would also be on here The two of us play with males selected by her and that I would not interfere with although I try to guide the issue by introducing a man to her and let the seduction take place

13 Aug 2012

Voyer I think you are one of the few whom if one has followed the forum would know are honest about how you guys play! I find it very sexy, even though I am not quite as adventurous as your wife to have her 'skelmpies' for you to discover :lol As for the issu pi3t has raised it is one we kinda feel strongly about as well, hence the statement on our profile about not intrested in maried men playing without missus knowing. I do have one gent I chat with, and will possible in the chatroom chat with them, but there will be not meetings or play! Not even chatting of play only everyday things! My personal feeling on this is swinging is something COUPLES enjoy, single men is simply and added *cock* for pleasure redface

and also, I see it as what if it was my hubbie and I had to find out. As I wife I can only imagine the hurt and dammage it could cause to a relationship. As for our profile, hubbie is rarely online since he does not have an office bound job, but he gets a blow by blow report of what I've been doing and whom I've been chatting with. That of course again has had many men disappear since I guess they think I'm this horny housewife here to be nauty! wink

and ya ofcourse I am but not without him knowing or watching me!

13 Aug 2012

I enjoyed both comments, and yes erotic I should be more clear - i dont want to create the wrong impression - I DO NOT WANT AN AFFAIR!! I hope that clear, I am here for the company and the chat and too perv over pics LOL. I too give an update to the missus and tell her to have a looksy at certain profiles, but for now I understand and as I said before I do respect all profiles but expect the same from everyone. For voyer I love to read your forum commentary and your forums - always a great read. Anymore comments would be appreciated - seasoned or not.

13 Aug 2012

Oh the age old married ,versus singe but married. I am ONE of the lucky people , MY girlfriend KNOWS what I do...she sometimes read what I talk about or whom I talk to. She even goes to some Meets and Greets with me, OR TAKES me to my play dates and waits for me... smile

yeah yeah I know sounds kinda like a fantasy huh?? BUT all true.I will go as far to invite you to speak to her on the phone just to say hello so you can feel comfortable. LOL I have this one gent friend who sometimes comes to our home NOT TO PLAY but to socialize,She would then ask him if he is going to some function or place and if he is and I am going, she would instruct him to *look* after man we would not go as a couple thus this could turn out awkward...LOL but we understand each other and her....:)And yes he would keep an eye on me and I on him. I also sometimes test the *married man who is here with his spouses knowledge,who is asking for a *date*I then tend to ask to speak telephonically with the wife to ensue she does KNOW...lol, you see how they disappear in a cloud of DUST!!!!never to be heard of again. You get this men who makes a big drama out how they trying to convert lovey to play....and then blame everyone else if that does not use that to make ensure you feel it is okay to meet them. The ones stating they are here with out lovey knowing and playing alone is okay for me. they are SAFE,and far more trust I will take at face value and meet (if I ever meet)and see if we click.

14 Aug 2012

From time to time I will show my wife a big cock if I see one that I think she will appreciate and see if I can entice her into inviting him to play, This does not always work but have one chat friend that she seems interested in and one other that we are trying to seduce her As for the comment that men have of convincing her to play, doubt it, they want thier cake and eat it. I think a lot of woman really enjoy a new cock, and all the foreplay that goes with it, and I think it takes a man to let her enjoy herself because if you look at the profiles it seems that a lot of couples are just the husbands fantasies and wanting to get a screw so he convinces his wife that is what she wants, especially all the bi woman

14 Aug 2012

In our case was bit turned round....I was the one who a few years ago brought up the fantasy of us having a 3some with a lady because I was curious about it. From there our fantasies simply expanded and eventually I decided to look were to find other people who are into this lifestyle and joined the site. Once hubbi and I had our first (same room play) playdate there is no stopping him now, he is even willing to let us invite a single guy for a 3some once we find someone we are both comfortable with. So yes I think most men have this fantasy and do their best to convince their lady to go along with it, but sometimes us ladies are the horny fantasising ones too! lol

14 Aug 2012

I know from experiance that women can be as hot as men, usually more once they accept the fact The bi was not aimed at you, I have read enough of your chats to know otherwise and also have a number of female friends to know I should not generalise Look at the profiles and see if you can identify them

14 Aug 2012

I know was not aimed at me Voyer lol

but just letting all those out there who may not have realised it yet that, ya sometime us ladies can be as horney as men, espesially once we break free of those generalised boxes people get placed in!

15 Aug 2012

Those boxes, took my wife many years and a abusive first husband to break away from the farm and now she is the one that initiates sex and in our house I am the one that gets the headache, not that this makes her stop