I just saw an add by a married man, who wants to have a secret play date with another man.
Now am I just horribly old fashioned? Or is this the move of a dick?
Is marriage not about honesty and respect and love. Why keep this from your wife? And why is he still married to this poor woman?
I'm a single guy (not the most popular form of user on here), but this really bugs me. Can someone please just explain to me if I'm being a doos about this. I really don't want to be narrow minded about this, so I'd really appreciate some input.
This topic will never achieve anything like consensus, as it simply is not in the married guys interests to give ground and he is left with no alternative but to defend his position.
Rather take your own stand on the issue (the same as some swinging couples won't play with married men), and let them deal with the fallout when they get caught.
Don't judge those guys, also don't play with them either. Hopefully they won't get any action, but if he wants to cheat and lie to his wofe then that's his issue. I also don't see how you can trust a playdate with a cheater, if he can lie to his wife then imagine what he has said to you.
Oh man! Mike-pta, you put it in a perfect nutshell. Precisely.
Well put Mike, very very true.