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Single men....yes, they can be a pain in the arse (and not in a good way).

I know that and 100% understand all of us have our own preferences and types of interactions we are looking for. I also 100% respect the fact that you as a couple or single lady are not looking for a single male and even though I might look through your album to appreciate your yummy puctures and videos, I will refrain from contacting you (as per your very clear "NO SINGLE MEN" mantras).


However, if YOU contact me, start a conversation and after some time just go quiet without any reason or explanation, SHAME ON YOU! 


A lot of single guys are actually respectful, find out where your boundries are, play by your rules. There are single guys who respect your marriage or relationship and will not try to arrange "skelm" hookups. Why then can't you show us the same decency and man up when you think things won't work out? Why are you not able to be mature enough and say "Hey, sorry but we don't think it will work out".


One of the cornerstones of swinging is mutual respect. If you were shown respect by someone, chances are 100% they will understand if you have changed your mind. 


I also know the people who should be reading this most probably have no interest in the forums, but just perhaps this might make someone think twice about how they interact with EVERYBODY on the site. smile

Well said, I couldn't agree more.

It is funny but of all the men we met very few came from a site like this and we used to meet only single men