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Quote by oceanlovers
3 times let down .
and these are all so called " friends " . with friends like these who needs enemies .
no 1, a wife emailed me and we exchanged more than 750 emails !!!! . then suddenly it stops
no 2 , again a wife chatted with me in the chat room for many hours probably over 100 hours . they were visiting the area on holiday from pretoria ,we exchanged phone numbers and i waited for the call , i rang and left sms x 4 , also emailed and left messages on here . no reply
no 3 , a couple were visiting our area , i asked if they wanted to meet for a drink , reply came back too busy . yet not that busy to be in the chat room each evening ,
it must be me at fault , too gullible,

It's sad to read stories like this but unfortunately it happens. Not just with couples but definately singles as well. I have on numerous occasions been let down but I realised this long ago that it's part and parcel of being in this lifestyle. I have met a couple 3 times and on the fourth occasion nothing. Then when you call no reply. It's just the way it is. The main thing is not to get dispondent but get exited becase this is a numbers game. The more let downs you get the quicker you will have the opportunity to have the one meet that changes everything. Then you would have forgotten about all the other let downs.
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I'd love to hear more about something that happens frequently to the serious couples here makes you the gullible one.
Getting serious now, it happens to all of us though. Might in suggest one of the meet and greets at on swinging parties tab to the left.
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you honestly think that we would be invited to a swingers party , cant even get people to meet for a drink
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Oceanlovers - I understand your frustration, sadly it happens periodically on all sites not just this one. I think Mike_Pta was suggesting that by using the Forum as he's suggested you'd have the opportunity to explore the meets and clubs section.
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There's clubs too. . Have you tried going to clubs?