Good Day all you wonderful people of SH...
Today I've got a question for the Ladies / Couples in the house:
1. Have you had any encounters / experiences with a younger guy than yourselves?
2. How much younger was he?
3. What was the overall rating of the encounter out of 10 where 0 = terrible and 10 = excellent.
Young guys, also feel free to answer.
Pieter
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Ladies / Couples and the Young Guys
Probably but to be honest I really didn't take notes....
I don't thing an issue with age has as much to do with experience or expectation as it does with association;
I can't go with guys younger than my little brother (28) or the same age as my son (21) ... it just makes me feel like a creepy old woman, I associate that age group with "kid" - it is too much of a mind-fk
Quote by MattLeeEC
Probably but to be honest I really didn't take notes....
I don't thing an issue with age has as much to do with experience or expectation as it does with association;
I can't go with guys younger than my little brother (28) or the same age as my son (21) ... it just makes me feel like a creepy old woman, I associate that age group with "kid" - it is too much of a mind-fk
Fair enough Lee
My very first sexual encounter was with an older couple and I know for a fact they enjoyed it just as much as me...
9 out of 10
Pieter
My wife prefers men our age but on occasion has enjoyed men younger than her son, a fact she pointed out, the sex was great but as you say Lee it makes her feel creepy, she still has that hangup that is getting old
My first experiance was with a woman about 30 years older than me and I treasure the memories of her
I think that the association thing is more significant when you still consider those people in your life ' children', and probably more so for women because we think in connections and associations a lot, whereas guys are more able to separate the issues in their lives, including sex and ANY other aspect 
So generally it is more difficult to get past those thoughts for a woman.
To put it bluntly, guys just don't get what all the fuss is about.
And women are like "but what if he is friends with our kid?"
Equally, I have just as much trouble with the thought of guys older than my dad, or guys who look much like those guys in my life, my son, my father, my father in law... It just ups the creepy factor.
And here's the most important part, if she is creeped out, she is not turned on and there will be no squealing or moaning or for that matter, nookie for anyone. So don't try to change her mind, just make a new plan.. seriously guys there is plenty of dick and pussy to go around... Everyone can find people they are attracted to/comfortable enough with who have little our no creep factor associated with them, to have fun with.
Hope you boys are paying attention to these gold nuggets of info I keep dropping on how chicks work...
My clients pay A LOT of money for this stuff, and you are ask getting it for free... You want to know how woman work, and get what you want from a woman, then take notes! :twisted:
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So generally it is more difficult to get past those thoughts for a woman.
To put it bluntly, guys just don't get what all the fuss is about.
And women are like "but what if he is friends with our kid?"
Equally, I have just as much trouble with the thought of guys older than my dad, or guys who look much like those guys in my life, my son, my father, my father in law... It just ups the creepy factor.
And here's the most important part, if she is creeped out, she is not turned on and there will be no squealing or moaning or for that matter, nookie for anyone. So don't try to change her mind, just make a new plan.. seriously guys there is plenty of dick and pussy to go around... Everyone can find people they are attracted to/comfortable enough with who have little our no creep factor associated with them, to have fun with.
Hope you boys are paying attention to these gold nuggets of info I keep dropping on how chicks work...
My clients pay A LOT of money for this stuff, and you are ask getting it for free... You want to know how woman work, and get what you want from a woman, then take notes! :twisted:
:lol: Quote by Voyer1105
My wife prefers men our age but on occasion has enjoyed men younger than her son, a fact she pointed out, the sex was great but as you say Lee it makes her feel creepy, she still has that hangup that is getting old
My first experiance was with a woman about 30 years older than me and I treasure the memories of her
Eish! Also have good memories of an older woman (young teacher at the time!) when I was still in (boarding) school. It definitely have an impact on my preference for older ladies (40+ ers) today!
So, Thank you to all the ladies that give the young lads a 'push' in life! LOL!
I can not really *rate* a number on older to younger men each person needs rating , including me,and I myself would like to think I am a solid 10 ,but I know some rate me a 1 to 5 depending on what happened, heck I am not fooling anyone.
When I was in my 20 and 30 and even in my 40`s, I was someone who preferred *older gents* due to their patience and relaxed ways and most of all their expertize. they would have been 6 to 20 years older than me.
Now I am in my late 50`s, and I realize the *older*aged men I used to like, is now YOUNGER than me!!!!
That would now make them in their Late 30 and 40`s.
So how to answer this forum????
I would most certainly feel uncomfortable with *boys* (who I KNOW in my mind,is in actual fact adult men)....but that is my age thing.
I love to run my arthritic hands down their supple firm bodies and feel the tension and the little surprise jumping of their muscles at a sudden touch or pinch or poke,when I am playing with them.
eish the burden of growing OLD......
