Lack of interest

Hey guys. So I have been a Paying member of sh for about 6 monthS now. I haven’t had any luck. A few gay guys msged me and that was that. If I swung that way I guess it would be awesome.

i guess as a single guy you luck out on this platform. Anyway I am stil hopeful. Maybe one day  

maybe search the forum for the guide for single guys. some great insights and tips there. just a suggestion. 

Are you waiting for somebody to contact you or have you made the effort to at least initiate contact. Look at potential playmates and if you fit their "preferences" then contact them.

I have contacted a number of ladies  but I guess I am not their preference .

SH is a lot of work. On average we have to talk to 150+ people to meet and possibly play with one person. Just keep at it.

Your diamond is out there

Thanks guys  I won’t give up 

Our hit ratio on here is 1 in 20. And thats just messages here that move across to a more convenient platform (w h a t s a p p   or  Te le gr am). Of those - we end up pursuing 1 in 5 for a face to face meet. And of those probably 1 in 5 results in playtime (pre-covid). You gotta kiss a lotta frogs to find the princes/princesses. 

But when it happens - suddenly all the work that went into finding them feels worthwhile.