Just another dissapointed rant

Thanks Localcouple   Mike, now that sounds like the best idea that I have heard in quite some time 

Road trip with regular pit stops...?

Genius.

Joining this thread a little late but as a single guy had to say I agree with the comments coming from both sides... This is my fifth attempt at this site, in search of what seems to be, a golden opportunity that is given to those who don't understand its value...

A true gent, naughty by nature but wrapped in manner and tact. It does feel so disheartening to hear how guys drop meets with fabulous couples ( yes I know couples guilty too) 

I, along with so many other genuine and real guys would love an opportunity, but our jobs are made harder ( inappropriate choice of word lol ) by others wastefulness.

I will however continue to search for that which I would like here and encourage the couples also to continue their path along this erotic playground. I have tasted it's orgasmic fruits and go search of more

Wish us all luck

Quote by localcouple1234
Road trip with regular pit stops...?
Genius.

Lol, regular pit stops, sleep overs and meet ups. Now I just need to get time off work to join said rOooooad trip.

Quote by localcouple1234PS...if you're ever in Bloem we need to have a beer and a long discussion concerning the many facets of Deadpool

Following your 'rant' if I may private mesage you enquiring about a single in your area?...

When we opened profile it was a couple now single lady somehow. 

Anyway, want to know if he is a cool dude if you know him since we started chatting.

Now Dave I wonder, "no single guys" and others say "no Married guys"

I think the couple must just contain themselves and mind their manners

Dave i could not say it any better! i am in exactly your position (well basically, as i don't know you) for me its friends first and only by mutual chemistry, play.

well said mate!

Hi Unknown

Stop looking and enjoy the site and Forum and someone will find you

interesting reading peeps, 

i have my own reasons for doing what i do and do not judge others either, i try to make absolutely sure that i will not harm my family in any way. i am still very much in love with my wife after 26 years and would hate to hurt her by being careless in the lifestyle,for me discretion is paramount. if i cant make a play date then i am honest and say so. for me its not all about sex either, i really enjoy meeting people and becoming good trustworthy friends with them, and if things happen, well then that's a bonus. i have met a few couples on the site and fortunately have never been stood up and vice versa. not all have led to anything further, but it is really nice to be able to talk to people about all things sexual in a good and understood way without pressure or expectations.

manners maketh the man, especially so in this lifestyle.

You said it mark1965...and you are open about the fact that you are with someone. But just in the past month we chatted with 2 seperate "single" guys. Guy 1 wanted to constantly arrange daytime meets...huge red flag...and guy 2 admitted in the first chat he is actually with someone. 

Lol...like we said, pointless hassle. But..we're nice and big, and accept the fact that we'll just have to keep on looking. 

eish sorry for the delayed reply...yeah honesty is a big part for me, but thats a double edged sword for me as well :doh:

Ain't that just life localcouple, within a sea of 'single guys' on this site you can't find ONE, why not advertise for a single girl with titties (as lovely as yours) ...... and you may just find that guy you're looking for, tho he may want you to dress up as his school mistress, and spank him for being naughty, and tie him down and humiliate him, which may just turn out to be a bunch of fun! ..... Sigh, such is life .... but if you keep an open mind who knows what'll transpire, and isn't that what this is all about, venturing forth into the great unknown..........

Hi all,

I have been on this site for 2 years now and apart form one or two invites and a slew of gay spam i have not met anyone.

and not because i have not tried, I am single, a bit shy but would really love to hook up with some quality people.

I have taken my pictures off but will send pic's with pleasure if interested .

craigmic.

Hi all,

I have been on this site for 2 years now and apart form one or two invites and a slew of gay spam i have not met anyone.

and not because i have not tried, I am single, a bit shy but would really love to hook up with some quality people.

I have taken my pictures off but will send pic's with pleasure if interested .

craigmic.

Hi all,

I have been on this site for 2 years now and apart form one or two invites and a slew of gay spam i have not met anyone.

and not because i have not tried, I am single, a bit shy but would really love to hook up with some quality people.

I have taken my pictures off but will send pic's with pleasure if interested .

craigmic.

Hi all,

I have been on this site for 2 years now and apart form one or two invites and a slew of gay spam i have not met anyone.

and not because i have not tried, I am single, a bit shy but would really love to hook up with some quality people.

I have taken my pictures off but will send pic's with pleasure if interested .

craigmic.

Fuuuuck !!! it seems all us single or married playing without consent guys are toast on here LOL. But its okay, somewhere out there is our little place in the sun, especially the genuine guys.

Not at all zodiacsa...like we stated in the original post, we have met AND played with single guys we met on here...not all toast, lol. 

i find that more often than not, people i click with tend to be very far from me.

Hi guys

After a recent experience with my wife's toyboy we were curious to see if our SH account was still open.  We were like, "Why don't we do this more often!?" And what do you know, like the vampire Lestat sleeping in a tomb, "smalltowncouple" was eagerly awaiting it's resurrection.  So we jumped on the party bus, took some pics, wrote down a profile description and then...

...then we realised our profile description had the same bitter tone as anyone else's.  I started remembering why we left the site (twice already) before! 

Now before I continue I have to make something clear. We stay in the platteland and the pickings here oppieplaas is maar skraal. Meeting people you connect with on the site is almost impossible as we can only travel over weekends; IF there's no school sport, IF I'm not on standby and IF we can find a babysitter.  And that's before we've set up a playdate. Nevertheless, hope (and hornyness) is a strange, sometimes consuming fire.

Back to my story. The first profile description I wrote left a dead animal smell in my mouth. It was extremely negative, with phrases like; we know what we want..., all winks will be deleted..., looking to meet SERIOUS people..., not going to accept your friend request if we haven't even talked..., no married men..., NO SINGLE MEN, NO SINGLE MEN, NO SINGLE MEN!!!... and of course the brown, boring, about as useful as a WWE referee, paragraph: WARNING: Any person or institution blah blah blahdiblah...

We write these things, because we've all had shit experiences with people in the past. We want to be safe, not have to worry and just have a fucking good time! But unfortunately people are arseholes. This we know. It's not news. And does these warnings and rules deter single guys from sending you dicpics or winks??? No. It doesn't. Because men are always jags. Deal.

I feel like we're stating the obvious too much, instead of being a tad more personal, vulnerable and creative. You don't have to open their emails, private albums or winks. Just put it in the bin, guy.  Report them if they don't behave. Or name and shame the cowards and hollow bastards that don't show up for dates. Or even better, praise the ones who are great folks! I really think we should use our instinct and street smart spidersense to sort out the kief from the kak. And isn't this part of the game??? Make peace with it or move along. 

But when we post negative phrases like that on our profile, it spoils the mood man. It gives power to the dark side. It makes us appear self involved, shallow, ignorant and weak. And who wants a lover like that.

Guys, I know it's tough. We know. We had some horrible experiences, BUT some great ones. People we still love to this day and wish we could see more.

Be the change. You are inside the world outside. Just be lekker.