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Warming the Bed
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Quote by 2some4fun
Mrs was wanting some MFM fun. Started browsing single guy profiles around us. The amount of guys listed as married - playing without consent - who cite on their profile "respectable / courteous / ladies rule / integrity blah blah".
Comeon guys. You’re cheating on your wives. Those words do NOT belong on your profiles. We don’t judge. But a little honesty goes a long way. Rather add adjectives that are true opposed to those you thing gulible people will fall for.
Our 2c worth. Happy hunting.

 Agree 100%

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Ok, so may I ask a few questions then, just to get clarity and understand the lifestyle: 

Why is it automatically assumed that married men play without consent? 

Why is it so inconceivable that one party of a couple is attracted to the lifestyle and the other not? 

Why do lifestyle couples judge, when they say they don't, even the unwilling spouse of a married player by automatically assuming that he/she is stupid? 

Why do people, when wanting to play solo, have to be sexually unhappy in their marriage to look for excitement outside of it, while for lifestyle couples it's ok? One only has  to look at a few profiles: "We are looking for something to spice up our sex life...."

And finally: Why do the "rules" not apply to women? I have yet to see a profile that says: "Married lady's, please move on"

Just asking....



Sexlightened
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Married ladies please move on. There we said it. We don't play with anybody playing without consent.

Naturally we are referring to people playing without consent. We would (and have) played with married guys and ladies without the spouse there. But only after meeting the spouse and having them know who their significant other is with.

Sexlightened
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Married Ladies please move on... Are you F#cking serious? 

With the amount of single ladies on this website that are actually active in meeting and playing compared to the amount of Single and Married guys looking to hook up is insane.

We decided a while back that we are here to have fun and to have the most awesome sex ever. 

We don't care if you are married or not. What you do in your life is your problem and we don't want to hear about your problems. We are all adults on this site for the same reason, so you dont have to give us a 2 hour speach about why you are doing this behind your partners back. Bla bla bla

We wouldn't do it behind each other's back but We will/do not judge you...

And why do the rules not apply to woman...

Don't you know Woman make up the Rules of swinging...icon_smile.gif

Oh another reason is ... I've had 7 married guys playing alone contact me while I'm writing this and only 1 married woman contact us in 6 years....

Married woman feel free to contact us, We Are Open For Business!

Warming the Bed
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Quote by PoohC
Married Ladies please move on... Are you F#cking serious? 
With the amount of single ladies on this website that are actually active in meeting and playing compared to the amount of Single and Married guys looking to hook up is insane.
We decided a while back that we are here to have fun and to have the most awesome sex ever. 
We don't care if you are married or not. What you do in your life is your problem and we don't want to hear about your problems. We are all adults on this site for the same reason, do you dont have to give us a 2 hour speach about whu you are doing this behind your partners back. Bla bla bla
.We wouldn't do it behind each other's back but We do not judge you...
And why do the rules not apply to woman...
Don't you know Woman make up the Rules of swinging...smile
Oh another reason is ... I've had 7 married guys playing alone contact me while I'm writing this and only 1 married woman contact us in 6 years....
Married woman feel free to contact us, We Are Open For Business!

 Well said!!!!