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how do i introduce my wife into swining

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any suggestions....
Voyer1105
Orgasminator
Get a friend to seduce her
NawtyCat
Sexlightened
COMMUNICATION is the key ... I obviously do not mean that you should blurt out, at the dinner table, that you would like to have sex with her friends because your sex life has become mundane. Lol Encourage her to tell you about her fantasies and share yours. Once you are both comfortable communicating on this level you will start creating mutual fantasies and, it is at this point, that you can introduce the idea of actually living out some of those fantasies with the swinging lifestyle as the platform. Tried, tested and proven by me and many others I have spoken to...
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My wife is very very horny and she is a sex lover. She has 3 dildos and she named them. When ever we have sex, the dildos are also used. She has double penetrations with the dildos and my cock. She makes turns sucking my cock and dildos. She goes wild when she sucks and get fucked. But as soon as I mention that we must try out a 3some or 4some with guys, she flips out and says that she is not a whore. That is why I joined this site to experience a 3some or gang bang. How do I convince my wife that it is okay and fine with me to have a gang bang or 3some or 4some??? PLEASE HELP ME I'm DESPERATE !!!!
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My wife is very very horny and she is a sex lover. She has 3 dildos and she named them. When ever we have sex, the dildos are also used. She has double penetrations with the dildos and my cock. She makes turns sucking my cock and dildos. She goes wild when she sucks and get fucked. But as soon as I mention that we must try out a 3some or 4some with guys, she flips out and says that she is not a whore. That is why I joined this site to experience a 3some or gang bang. How do I convince my wife that it is okay and fine with me to have a gang bang or 3some or 4some???
PLEASE HELP ME I'm DESPERATE !!!!
Hi Kevin,
First and foremost, it is crucial to get the message across to her that it's all about her and not about you...
Please check out my latest blog "Swinging Relationships"...
Just one word of advise, whatever you do and immaterial as to how you approach it, do it slow and more importantly, take note of what she says and how she says it.
DON'T EVER FORCE ANYTHING...
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Even if they are dead against the idea..... Have you always liked the idea of trying swinging? You know, you and your partner exploring a few fantasies, indulging in some partner swapping, a threesome, or maybe even an orgy? Most people have fantasies along these lines to some degree or another, but many people in a relationship run into a problem: their partner isn't interested! Perhaps even hostile. Well rather than 'suffer in silence' there is actually a lot you can do to get your partner interested. It's not nearly as difficult as you might think! The first thing to realize is that if you want to have a relationship strong enough to experiment with swinging and other sexual fantasies you have to build some very strong foundations. These foundations are TRUST and INTIMACY. The most successful swinging couples use such experiences as an enhancement to their relationship, never as a replacement. therefore, you need to work on your relationship first - and the swinging will follow. To create a great sexual relationship you need the following elements: 1) Understand your partner's values. What is important to them? What qualities make up their way of viewing the world? Is it adventure, excitement or safety and security? When you know your partner's values you can express what you want in a way that will also fit in with their view of the world. 2) How do they take in information? Are you communicating with them in a way that they actually understand? We all take in information in one of three main ways - visual (what we see), auditory (what we hear) or kinesthetic (what we touch or feel). We all tend to favor one. If you know your partner's main style you can communicate with them that way - and it will be much more powerful. If you can begin to communicate with your partner in their language they will feel much more loved by you. They will therefore trust you more - and be open to sexual exploration with you. Jealousy will not be an issue. They will feel safe and loved by you. Only then will they be able to truly open up to you sexually - and you might be surprised what emerges. Successful swinging is always the result of a very strong relationship where communication is very deep. Focus on creating this first - by speaking your partner's language - and the sexual experimentation will eventually follow...