How did you meet your partner

I have always wondered how the guys managed to get a wife / girlfriend that is interested in swinging / cuckold / stag lifestyle. Since I have always had this interest, it has been difficult getting into a relationship with a female that feels the same about this. Which just meant that in the end I have just given up on getting  someone permanent in my life.  So when I visit the site and I see all the couples that are happily married I do envy you guys. Now I'm not  here looking for a wife or even a girlfriend, but I always wonder, where or how do you meet someone that is like minded. So how did you guys get your partners, did the swinging thing only start later in your lives or have you been this way inclined from the start?

We were fortunate to have found one another IN the lifestyle. One of us more so involved than the other. And it progressed as Unicorn and ROgue becoming a swinging couple since neither wanted to abandon the freedom and choice the lifestyle affords. 

Don't give up looking for a vanilla Mrs Right. 99% of couples were mortified at the idea of swinging when their significant other first raised it. But honestly goes a long way. In your situation - assume you're dating a lady. Obviously not on the first date - but once the relationship has progressed, start to expand on your lifestyle experiences - BUT relate them to her from the perspective of the wives you have met. Expanding on the pleasure and choice they get out of being a swinger. You will soon (hopefully) have her asking more probing questions. And as soon as she does - thats the first step on an amazing adventure. 

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We were fortunate to have found one another IN the lifestyle. One of us more so involved than the other. And it progressed as Unicorn and ROgue becoming a swinging couple since neither wanted to abandon the freedom and choice the lifestyle affords. 

Don't give up looking for a vanilla Mrs Right. 99% of couples were mortified at the idea of swinging when their significant other first raised it. But honestly goes a long way. In your situation - assume you're dating a lady. Obviously not on the first date - but once the relationship has progressed, start to expand on your lifestyle experiences - BUT relate them to her from the perspective of the wives you have met. Expanding on the pleasure and choice they get out of being a swinger. You will soon (hopefully) have her asking more probing questions. And as soon as she does - thats the first step on an amazing adventure. 

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We were fortunate to have found one another IN the lifestyle. One of us more so involved than the other. And it progressed as Unicorn and ROgue becoming a swinging couple since neither wanted to abandon the freedom and choice the lifestyle affords. 

Don't give up looking for a vanilla Mrs Right. 99% of couples were mortified at the idea of swinging when their significant other first raised it. But honestly goes a long way. In your situation - assume you're dating a lady. Obviously not on the first date - but once the relationship has progressed, start to expand on your lifestyle experiences - BUT relate them to her from the perspective of the wives you have met. Expanding on the pleasure and choice they get out of being a swinger. You will soon (hopefully) have her asking more probing questions. And as soon as she does - thats the first step on an amazing adventure. 

Thanks for the insightful answer. Yes I always wonder how would I, if I ever had to be in a situation, bring up the idea to my girlfriend, that I would like to see other guys play with you. That has always made me hesitant in even looking to get into a relationship.

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We were fortunate to have found one another IN the lifestyle. One of us more so involved than the other. And it progressed as Unicorn and ROgue becoming a swinging couple since neither wanted to abandon the freedom and choice the lifestyle affords. 

Don't give up looking for a vanilla Mrs Right. 99% of couples were mortified at the idea of swinging when their significant other first raised it. But honestly goes a long way. In your situation - assume you're dating a lady. Obviously not on the first date - but once the relationship has progressed, start to expand on your lifestyle experiences - BUT relate them to her from the perspective of the wives you have met. Expanding on the pleasure and choice they get out of being a swinger. You will soon (hopefully) have her asking more probing questions. And as soon as she does - thats the first step on an amazing adventure. 

Well this is actually so awsome that I can share our story ..... You touched few things that we actually happend in our situation....

Met my now (Fiance)  where she was working as a bar lady . As the night  went on we just had eye contact and was talking without any words  spoken ... At the end of the knight I invited her for coffee @ 3 am she replied and said not at her place so I said KFC are open 24/7 as I stays 60 km away so I drove off to KFC and waited for her .and On her arrival I got the drinks and we started to talt and the two of us just felt comfortable with one another and talked about all the goods aswel as the bad as time goes by we couldn't stop talking and asking questions  so on my last chance to say say something I told her that I was in the Lifestyle and let it out and she was little unsettled and so soon after I had to leave and it's was like 7:45 andwe started dating and a month went passed and she came to me and asking questions about the lifestyle and the excitement grew on her and she did reading up about the lifestyle. And found it interesting ..... So we grow together in the Lifestyle and yes it all starts off with HONESTY from the start at that KFC and almost two years ingaged and still very happy and every time we get to play jand hope to meet someone we learn to knowourselves better so now we play together in the Lifestyle and enjoying every moment....