Groups on SH

12 Jan 2014

Can someone please explain to me why there are hundreds of groups on SH and none of them are actually worth anything. It is a complete waste of time to join a group as you never get a reply on a question or request! Pffft! Enough said!!

12 Jan 2014

I know what you mean, it's frustrating sometimes. Some people do reply though, occasionally. I always reply, but unless you ever come up to Pretoria I don't know if we can help each other out. Sorry.

13 Jan 2014

Yip. Lived in that area and relocated to Durban. Lots of action in that area but Durban and surrounds seems to be a dead end. Everyone seems to be interested in talking only and not so much in doing anything. Oh well. I suppose life's a bitch sometimes! smile

13 Jan 2014

Quote by Boet_Dolla
Yip. Lived in that area and relocated to Durban. Lots of action in that area but Durban and surrounds seems to be a dead end. Everyone seems to be interested in talking only and not so much in doing anything. Oh well. I suppose life's a bitch sometimes!

Maybe you should consider starting your own group . . . . . . . that way it would function exactly the way you would want it to . . .

13 Jan 2014

Good idea, but I think there is a general lack of interest in groups on this site. Unfortunate, because groups can be a great help if you are unsure about something or just need information on places, rules, activities and so forth. We are new to our area and have joined some local groups for exactly that reason but no joy!

13 Jan 2014

@ Boet_Dolla I am also a bit perplexed at *groups* as it seems people start a group, then forget about *starting one*. I get invited to join groups and currently I can really only recommend 2 very active groups. One is unfortunately in Gauteng the Other here in CPT so it is of no help to you. These 2 groups sent out member notifications and have active meets and play notices.I think they can be called positive groups.

21 Jan 2014

Well we have started a group and I have posted in the forum. Guess what? Only one member replied! It seems to me that people are quick to join but when it comes to meets etc they just disappear. So why still join groups and create groups when its just for show? Wish we could find some great people in our area to meet and share our experience with as travelling isn't possible for us at the moment.

21 Jan 2014

Being bored tonight, I went to see what new groups has been started since my last browsing session I have to say MOST so called groups really belongs under the personals and advertisements section and NOT really belong as a group. I also noticed how many KINKY and Bondage groups there are, BUT only one is really active..What happened to the others?? Not really being utilized the way it could go, I was specially interested in one that said people an join to learn and teach their skills to others who would like to learn...but alas many people joined but nothing active is happening. So all in all I have to agree all these so all *groups* is wasted space really!

5 Feb 2014

Would be great to find a group with extremely interactive people. I see some users have joined over 50 groups. Whats the point of that. Can you really expect to keep up to date with all those groups or is it a numbers game. Same thing with the amount of Friends people have. We get sent requests but as soon as you try have a conversation, you barely get a response. Why invite us then. Thats why we accept, attempt to make contact and if nothing materialises (like a decent conversation for example), then we just REMOVE you. That simple. Sames goes for the groups.

5 Feb 2014

Groepe, Glo daar is 'n verandwoordelikheid op die persoon wat a groep stig, hy moet verseker iets in gedagte gehad het toe hy die groep gestig het en verder het hy mense in die groep aanvaar. Maar uit eie ondervinding op SH het dit net daar dood geloop, Die persoon aanvaar jou en dan gebeur daar niks. Ons het nog altyd by a groep aan gesluit omdat iets in die groep ons belangstelling geprikkel het, maar werklik het dit na die tyd probeer opvolg met geen sukses. So moet saam stem dat ons ondervinding nie regtig die groepe ondersteun nie.

5 Feb 2014

It took me a while to realise that a) there are no dashboard notifications for group events and posts, if there were, it might be different, b) you have to LOOK at your own profile to see quick messages This site be free but it's certainly not the most user friendly, logical or clever one smile

6 Feb 2014

LeeEC This problem was report to Adminsteve and he said that they looked at it and will be rectify in the new upgrade program