what are your thoughts on gangbangs (and I want to hear from experienced people please)....I've been asked to possibly join one with a couple & other men...but I havent even really talked to them & wouldnt know what the men that arrive will look like or what they will be into. is this how gangbags work? You just pitch up to a bunch of strangers and bunch of men fuck you? What if no one's into me, or I into them....I am aware that abuse etc hardly happens as I have experience in swingers lifestyle. But I am used to chatting, doing meet & greet first & then deciding...
Well I'm not experienced by choice - as you described it - I wouldn't want to be involved.
For me it's ALL about the flirt not just the fuck.
I"m not sure you'll get many responses here - I don't know of any regular contributors (ladies) who've shared anything to indicate that they could give you any insight, though the guys may have been involved in one. I am however, aware of someone on-site who regularly participates in this type of event, she has her own site too where she screens her candidates.
If you don't get a helpful response, PM me and I'll try to find her profile name for you.
I've been in a few. From the ones I've been to you end up chillingfor a bit, chat and have a few drinks until she is comfortable enough to get the ball rolling.
However I don't see why you can't invite a guy your comfortable with if that makes things easier for you. Just remember your still in charge so you can say no, those guys are there for you not the other way around.
I have seen a few and tried one. I say tried cos I walked out. I love being chased and earned. And sex has to be intense, sensual and erotic. When I attended a gang bang it brought back memories of a bad experience I had when I was younger. I still front get how women enjoy it* no offence to anyone*.
The few I've been to, is basically a whole lot of guys and like one or two women(the ones I've been to). Some men are gentle and do things in a certain way, then others are rough and they basically " fuck" the chick into an oblivion-again this is my take from what I have seen and experienced. Some start out nice then a sort if frenzy occurs, then its all just dirty, sex. I watched and felt overwhelmed as if the chicks were being violated. I don't know, its definitely not for me though. Some women swear theory enjoy it so like everything in life I suppose, to each his own.