Hey all
How do you use "friend" on the site?
The reason we ask is we often get a friend request and we then send a message thanking the requester. But then we get no reply.
We like to use friend for people that we would play with.
But what do you use it for?
We only friend folks we have met not necessarily played with but have had at least a decent conversation with. Requests for friends with strangers seems bit odd to us.
I know some people send friend requests as a means of showing interest, but I feel that we should see if we get along first, then we'll know if we want to be friends. Most of the time they're 'out of messages' and just wanted to 'catch your eye', but they didn't even bother reading the profile. Or the profile is bare. Friend requests from strangers get a cheeky message from me and most then just disappear😄
We accept friend requests from people we are interested in , within a reasonable travel distance, we would then make contact and attempt to meet. If however nothing comes of it we just remove them , no point in having pages of friends you will never meet
We like getting friend requests, but if they don't answer us within one month we deliete them. No point in having friends that dont communicate.
I’m fairly new here, so please help me. This is quite similar! When I send an introductory message to a lady or couple (only after matching her/their preferences), why the silence? I can see that you’ve read my message, so please reply! If you had a look at my profile and you don’t like what you see, then please say so, at least then I know not to bother you again. I just think it’s utterly rude not to reply. Say your say, I’m a big boy, and will take no offence!
Dude don't hold your breath, just move on . Most people would rather ignore than actually reply.
We encounter couples and single guys , that like our profile and pictures, then ignore you when you make contact.
For some this lifestyle is like a small dog chasing the fire engine. They don't know what to do when it actually stops.
Don't waste energy, generally you'll meet about 3 people out of every 20 or so you make positive contact with. And you'll maybe play with one .
