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Hey all

How do you use "friend" on the site?

The reason we ask is we often get a friend request and we then send a message thanking the requester. But then we get no reply.

We like to use friend for people that we would play with.

But what do you use it for?

We only friend folks we have met not necessarily played with but have had at least a decent conversation with. Requests for friends with strangers seems bit odd to us.

I know some people send friend requests as a means of showing interest, but I feel that we should see if we get along first, then we'll know if we want to be friends. Most of the time they're 'out of messages' and just wanted to 'catch your eye', but they didn't even bother reading the profile. Or the profile is bare. Friend requests from strangers get a cheeky message from me and most then just disappear😄

Interesting... we only accept messages from friends, but we only accept friend requests if the profile matches with what we request. It keeps our mailbox from overflowing.