ok so everyone here is saying the forums are dead.
so here goes
a couple contacted us, note... they contacted us.
the guy created a group on and added all parties. so we all started chatting and the girls and boys really seem to get along really well.
they sent some nice pics, very nice pics, and even stated they are In the lifestyle for about 3 years. next thing you know, dude disappears from group, few hours later, girl disappears. now that makes my wife realy realy mad, snowballs chance in hell, that she will ever trust them again, let alone meet.
asked the guy, what's happening, didn't get a reply from Saturday. wify asks girl,,, she says something happened and they are taking a break,(its called mutual respect a-hole)
thanks for yet again wasting our precious time. its already hard enough filtering through all the fakers here. but thanks for the pics dude, they are stored on my phone, and luckily I didn't send you any saucy pics, thats not how we work.
moral of the story, treat everyone as a faker until you've met them.
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Sex God
@jackd1112, I feel your frustration.
But just a thought, some of those we label as "fakers" often turn out to be "scared / cautious" often when these kinds of people join, they have every intention of actually getting involved in the so called lifestyle. They get a few messages from people who just do not have any manners (and there are hundreds on this site alone) and they start to re-think the whole thing. This then gets them the "label' of "faker" . . . much like the perception that ALL single males are "stinkers" . . . .
Those that are indeed fakers, well I cannot see the point of doing something like that, but yes, one does get them.
Orgasminator
That sucks to hear but I agree with SDMR. Sometimes life happens and it really buts you off going further.
Contact them again in a week, as how their day has been and be supportive. At worst you're nice to someone else and they feel better about a shitty situation and if you lucky you can rekindle their passion.
I think sometimes we forget it's a person on the other side of the monitor.
