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''Erotic Massage'' What is it

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Hi Guys and Ladies Well this is happened about 3 weeks ago. I took my wife to another lady for an erotic massage and guess what! my wife turned around afterwards and said to me. ''that was not what I expected from an erotic massage.'' I then asked her what did she expect and she replied ''I expected an erotic massage to be more about the teasing''. Now people can you please tell me what should happen if a lady gives another lady an erotic massage and while we are on this point what should happen if a lady gives a man an erotic massage. Joyride Need help please
Joyrider Are we talking about a message here or a massage??? Erotic messages is just a lot of naughty words, teasing the other person. It however can become quite raunchy though. sometimes People go overboard and it becomes dirty and degrading.
sorry i meant massage lol :lol: thank you for helping me right
ahhh the elusive sensual massage!!!!!! Your lovey sounded disappointed, THEN it was NOT done right for her. A really good sensual masseuse would have asked through out the massage how it is feeling. I know I expect a LOT of groans of pleasure to indicate I am doing it right!!!! I always also ask the person who is receiving the massage to tell me where and what they like and what they dislike. And acordingly to their responses one knows if you are doing it right or NOT. Remember a sensual massage is also something where the people who is giving and the one`s receiving should have at least an attraction for each other,if there is not chemistry. And yes teasing the lady, is part of the sensual massage.... slipping and sliding all over her body!!!!!!! And I can never stress the importance of Atmosphere!!! It is a deal breaker for me if I am expected to give or receive with out candles light music and the right oils!!! and most important of all the ritual of creating attraction!! Giving a sensual erotic massage to a lady or a gent is the same, the genital area massages is the only difference really. This is my way, others might not agree.