Does ANYBODY actually meet from this site and actually become acquainted even if just for a cup of coffee, God forbid even think about taking clothes off or is this just a fantasy world where guys jerk themselves off, into oblivion and ladies say no. We have arranged to meet so many people right down to even 'ing to make sure it for real, and NEVER do they pitch at the meeting place or time, its always the same thing, once you exchange details to meet that's the last you hear from them. The excuses are unimaginable........Why join a Swingers Place if you are never going to meet, why place on your profile those prophetic words "NO SINGLE GUYS" and get bombarded with single guys wanking, the same applies to colour preferential. I mean what is the point ???????????????????? Has all activities gone Cyber.
DOES ANYBODY
You are venting a bit due to empty meeting *dates*, If I am reading correctly, but just know, that, YES there are awesome people here on SH and not everyone has cold feet when they have to meet in person.
I know it may sound like BS but it is true,I myself has met quiet a few people from here and Not even to meet for playing just for a nice chat & coffee of course is not lately anymore due to me not being active anymore, but I still have contact with a few people who does meet up with other couples.
As for most people READING hard written profiles...well, yes that will always remain a problem, People seem not being able to read anymore. And even if they read they seem not to understand some prophetic words. That little problem will always remain a thorn in most couples set up.
Take a deep breath and try again, the real jewels are out here.
Everything of the best.
The proverbial "diamond in the ruff" is worth searching for thru all the "riff raff". We have met some people from here after many disapointments, but those we have met have become dear friends. Even the one whom on both sides decided there is no chemistry for play we still go for coffee with and have good chats with.
Hope you do find your 'diamonds'
R62 al raad wat ons kan gee is probeer en probeer weer, dit is so daar is 'n klomp rowwe diamante en hul wag om ontdek te word. Ons het in ons tyd ondervind dinge gebeur dat die meeste mense liewer verdwyn voor jy hulle ontmoet het, want hulle sou in elk geval net probleme veroorsaak het.
Dit is so die mense met die regte attitude is skaars maar as jy hulle ontmoet is die vriendskap net soveel beter
I've found a few diamonds here, well worth the search.
Oh Yes!! There ARE some seriously nice and genuine folks on this site!! I've found that it's about having patience, and building relationships, and not expecting instant gratification.... have met and enjoyed some really great times with some really nice people that I have gotten to know through this site!! Don't lose hope!!!
I've realised over time that finding what you REALLY want is actually a lot more difficult than one might imagine. It boils down to having the patience to sift through the chafe. So if you really really want friends to have fun with you just keep looking.
Of course being part of a community chat type situation does take the edge off the wait... so welcome. It's nice to see folk using the forums again.
couldnt agree more Lee
