Hey guys, great posts, I enjoy reading them.
But,
I have a question for you guys about the different type of orgasms
The most common 3 is, a gspot/vaginal/clit
So here is the question.
Is gspot and vaginal the same ..........or
Is vaginal and clit the same
And then I've real about,
The blended orgasm, which is gpot and clitorial at the same time.
I've done a little bit of reading and every one has their own opinions and none of it has helped.
I've read there is 11 (ithink) different type of orgasms a woman can have.
So I'm hoping you wonderful ladies can help, give advice.
Thanks
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Different Orgasms
Orgasminator
Cant wait to see Pib reply
Still waiting for my visitor to arrive.....
So here goes.
This question made me think of a series I watched recently.*Masters of Sex*
Freud, as brilliant as he was, defined just two types of female orgasm– vaginal and clitoral. To me, that's like saying the world is flat!. Here are my experiences about female orgasms.I have learned my own bodies enjoyment by having many varieties of lovers, and having many varieties of sexual sex partner has different sexual skills, styles, and assets, and every sex partner no matter how gifted, has their limitations. From the age of twenty to thirty I have had a lot of sex partners, and experienced sex in a huge variety of ways. Since I became sorta monogamous, the kinds of orgasms I have are far more limited. Orgasms are never exactly one kind of orgasm is not better or worse than are simply different.
Dream orgasms(Wet dreams)
Females do just like males, have dreams which lead to require absolutely no genital stimulation. Sometimes we simply wake up and we are in orgasm. Sometimes we dream we are having orgasm and we have one at the same time. Dream orgasms sometimes occur with strong vaginal and anal contractions, and sometimes not. They can feel like a clitoral orgasm, or an energy orgasm. They are extremely pleasurable. Sometimes a full bladder can trigger such orgasms.
Micro orgasms
These are quite small, extremely subtle orgasms that occur without any physical stimulation. They can take various forms. If we simply stop and focus on our erotic energy body, and visualize the orgasmic flow inside us, we can physically feel orgasmic waves pulse through our bodies and feel the 'tension and release' on a very subtle level. It's similar to the idea that 'enlightenment is within us'. Orgasm is within us. I have known a number of people who can do this. These kinds of orgasms can easily be taught. The people who will be able to teach you this is the Tantric guru`s.
Inter-Vaginal Orgasms
In this category I will lump together what are called vaginal orgasms, g-spot orgasms and cervical orgasms–any and all orgasms that happen inside the vagina with inter-vaginal stimulation (with fingers, fists, dildos, penises, etc. Each of these kinds of orgasm feels slightly different, and sometimes they occur together. Some inter-vaginal orgasms are totally subtle and some are overwhelming. I think that many women are having various kinds of inter-vaginal orgasms all the time, but don't acknowledge them as such, because they are expecting that their orgasms must feel like clitoral orgasms, and they don't. G-spot orgasms can happen with or without ejaculation.(squirting) Cervical orgasms often occur with fisting. One can feel a huge tension release deep in the gut. They are almost like belly orgasms. Often vaginal orgasms can occur without a climax.
Breath and Energy Orgasms (Tantric Learnings)
The fact that our Normal people mostly do not practice these kinds of orgasms is in my humble opinion is a major oversight. Breath and energy orgasms are wonderful, satisfying and can be mind-blowing. They are easily learned. Once again from anyTantric practitioner..
Clitoral Orgasms
This is widely agreed on that all women can have clitoral orgasms. The clitoris is stimulated, muscular tension builds, and there are vaginal contractions and a release of the energy. These can occur very localized just in the clitoris, or the feelings can spread up into the belly and groin and over the whole body. They can be teeny-tiny, or humongous. Clitoral orgasms can be 'extended'. There are multiple clitoral orgasms, and also possible are multiple clitoral climaxes. There are very deep clitoral orgasms, and surface clitoral orgasms.
Combination orgasms
Sometimes a lady has just one kind of orgasm in one part of the body, in one way. But often two or more kinds of orgasm are combined in succession or in tandem. These can be in absolutely any combination. During a single sex session, one might experience all seven different kinds of orgasm, if one is very lucky. In fact energy orgasms are almost always connected with clitoral or vaginal orgasms.
Mega orgasms
These are the volcano of all orgasms, or the tsunami of all orgasms. A megagasm is an intense full body experience, a deeply emotional experience, and for some a deeply spiritual orgasms are usually brought about by very intense physical stimulation—with very hard fucking combined with a really strong vibrator on the clitoris, fist fucking, anal sex with vaginal and clitoral stimulation, etc. Sometimes some uncomfort or pain can trigger one. The stimulation goes way beyond normal love making, into surrendering to intense physical force and massive genital manipulation ,which can also include kissing, nipple sucking, bondage.
General info.
Some women can orgasm from someone just manipulating her nipples.
Woman and men can be taught to orgasm on demand (NOT being stimulated physically) just by using ONE WORD or a sentence.
In Conclusion
Many women think that if an orgasm doesn't feel like a clitoral orgasm, then it must not be an orgasm. They are limiting themselves. Expanding our concept of orgasm can open our minds and body to experiencing new things. With proper instruction and with practice they become more conscious and clear. Then we can enjoy living more ecstatic, healthy, orgasmic lives, filled with ecstasy, bliss.
My advice to anyone is,go and experience everything you want to and enjoy every moment of it.
Hopefully my 5c info will be helpful in some small way
Orgasminator
Pib baie dankie vir jou inset, Ja en op die ou einde van die dag kan net die vrou se hoe sy dit ervaar het. Uit die bietjie ondervinding kan ek as man verklaar daar is verskillend orgasmes net deur die optrede van my partner en meer spesifiek my vrou.
Party keer is dit net 'n orgasme, 'n quickie, en dan is daar die intense orgasme en ja dit gebeur as daar baie forplay en baie detail is. Die einde is sweet en baie uitgeput. So of 'n hemelse kalmte wat oor haar neerdaal
sexyfun1 wrote:
So here is the question.
Is gspot and vaginal the same ..........or
Is vaginal and clit the same
And then I've real about,
The blended orgasm, which is gpot and clitorial at the same time.
For me, I feel G spot orgasm the best when the man/woman uses their fingers. When done right, this will make most woman squirt.
When lying on your back your partner inserts their index or long middle finger into the vagina as far as it will easily go. Then crook it up in a "come hither" motion, until they find an area that is rougher than the rest of that vaginal wall.
Vaginal orgasm I feel with penetration, the thrusting, either hard or soft, gives me a different orgasm, that I'd describe as vaginal.
Clitoral orgasm I feel best with some pressure straight on the clit and no mercy until I squirt. Fingers, tongue, vibrator, penis, they all work here for me.
I do kind of think that they are all probably blended in some way, some positions and actions just make one more intense than the other. As we are all different, we will all experience these orgasms differently, so I don't think there is just one answer.
Obviously Nimfie commenting :2fingers:
So here is the question.
Is gspot and vaginal the same ..........or
Is vaginal and clit the same
And then I've real about,
The blended orgasm, which is gpot and clitorial at the same time.
For me, I feel G spot orgasm the best when the man/woman uses their fingers. When done right, this will make most woman squirt.
When lying on your back your partner inserts their index or long middle finger into the vagina as far as it will easily go. Then crook it up in a "come hither" motion, until they find an area that is rougher than the rest of that vaginal wall.
Vaginal orgasm I feel with penetration, the thrusting, either hard or soft, gives me a different orgasm, that I'd describe as vaginal.
Clitoral orgasm I feel best with some pressure straight on the clit and no mercy until I squirt. Fingers, tongue, vibrator, penis, they all work here for me.
I do kind of think that they are all probably blended in some way, some positions and actions just make one more intense than the other. As we are all different, we will all experience these orgasms differently, so I don't think there is just one answer.
Obviously Nimfie commenting :2fingers:
@ Lee.
Climax and orgasm has small people talk about both as one and the same and that is not wrong, but with orgasms there is much a deeper connection than a climax(for me that is)
Sexual intercourse is mostly being used *mechanically* and we are going dead in our eyes, bodies and the object is limited to just "getting off." In fact, we are often using each other just as vessels for no more than upgraded masturbation.
What most of us in the lifestyle are experiencing is a climax which can be compared to a genital sneeze as opposed to a convulsive, grandmal-like seizure of a full blown orgasm.
Mostly Tantric practitioners can explain it much is were energy is distributed in the right sex and orgasms is best achieved with married couples. Not swinger friends or NSA convulsive, grandmal-like seizure of a full blown Orgasms enables us to completely expunge the contents of our emotional, spiritual and physical bodies, resetting our autonomic nervous system.
Couples should strife and hopefully achieved this over time
I have gotten this from Dr. Wilhelm Reich`s amazing grounded scientific observations about The Function of The Orgasm`s, Aswell as the teachings of Dr. Samuel Hahnemann the founder of Medical Heilkunst.
Just as we in any kind of Medical profession strife to give a People holistic healthcare. We could also strive to give holistic sexual
Satisfaction in our personal and swinger lifestyles.
As I said no one have to agree with me. This is my own opinion.
And I know there are many and much wiser people out here.
@PIB1
What a lovely enlightening post. I never thought to find out about energy orgasms.
I was an odd child that started meditating when I was 12 years old. The process simple and the feeling wonderful. It took daily practice but I loved the floating feeling my body and mind experienced and the clarity that came with visualising the energy flowing through my body.
I understood energy had real power. It wouldn't be possible, if we never experienced the power of it, or see the amount we use, create, give up and store, even discard.
This I usually used for simple things, setting up an internal alarm, improved memory, study processes were refined. Things are simpler at 12 and these were absolutely great wins for me. This continued for a few years, and my process was still the same, the goals too I kept to improving my studying process, setting grade targets and achieving them, achieving small goals. Learn to cook, bake, only so many things I could experience as a young teen (I lived alone with my dad, so things were simple)
Somewhere around 16 I realised that the energy release starts in my belly and spreads down lower, uterus, lower until my labia start tingling, and in an instant the energy flows in waves throughout my body. And then I meditate for about 20mins. But after years of starting my meditation process the same way (Lying down in bed, after the end of my day, and I've had enough time to go over my day)
But somewhere in between that, I realised the feeling was a very intense orgasm starting and throughout the 20 mins building up, and in climax comes absolute clarity. Usually my visualisation process starts after I'm completely relaxed.
But I did also learn it was easier for me to orgasm from any kind of stimulation, mind, body, sensory. (in a sexual situation) meditating is a process left for when I am safe in bed after a full day icon_ I did once focus all my energy that came with climaxing and put it into a wish. I had no idea it could be done, But it felt right at the time, Like I needed to do it.
I've kept my meditation process to myself, as as amazing as it is, the physical manifestations of an intense orgasm is always present.
But you have just totally blast open bits and pieces of what I felt, and now can learn more about.
Thank for the great post, forgive the email that isn't clear, but I think I can finally say YES it is an energy orgasm. That's what it always was.
