It aggravates me to no end (yes, even more than the useless spelling!) when the first message someone sends me demands a photo, and/or accuses me of being fake because i don't have an array of photos up!
I'm a young lady in a town that may seem big, but moves in small circles. Why would i want my local Spar manager knowing I'm into midday sex-fuelled rendezvous', post my Monday grocery shopping?
If, after a handful of delicious, well spelt, enticing messages you haven't made me doubt our education system - MAYBE i'd send you a picture... but only so you can spot me, to devour me literally like I'd devoured you mentally, from the hot and scrumptious messages you sent me. NOT because you have 40 pictures up.
Grrrr.
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I know what you mean... irritating isn't it.
Sadly the largest majority of women here are either completely intimidated, horribly offended or appalled by the behaviour of the vast majority of sad and dreadful single guys. And so they get fed up and leave, tired of being treated like some cheap hooker, desperate for a fuck. I know - completely frustrating. I cannot begin to tell you of the strange treatment I've received after I've turned someone down after a few mails.
One guy said he'd never been turned down before (If you saw his profile you would find that, as hard to believe as I did... :haha: )
Another guy, to whom I was not attracted to anyway, but rejected because he said he didn't want to be friends, it was just sex and friendship with other people breeds mistrust between partners, and I was an idiot if I didn't realise this, he actually got quite aggressive and abusive so I said I wasn't interested in hooking up with him (who would be, after that vitriol?) so in response to my "no thanks" he straight out accused me of being a "hairy sick old fuck" hiding in my basement using some poor innocent chick's photos to lure men into sharing their photos so I could "get off". He wrote about a page of crap which dripped with acid.
To which was delighted to reply by saying, in a nutshell that a) just because we're not after the same thing doesn't make one of us wrong and the other right, just 'not a match' really, and b) f-off I'm a mod, you're banned from this site for abusive behaviour to other members. Forever.
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@ Siren
All my sympathy for also going through with what most of us sometimes put up with.
Lately I just ignore MOST mails due to
Them not reading my profile.
Them demanding to see private album (as if it is their right)
The site flirt that means just nothing really.
One liners of how are you?? or Hi or I like your tits or wanna *fuck*....what more need I say You ladies know what I am talking about.
@ Lee
I had to laugh reading *"hairy sick old fuck" hiding in my basement*
After reading the solution you had to take in the end....
I now wish I was a *part time mod* just to also sent guys on their way I feel is taking things to far.
I know,I know , report them and get them deported in to space.
I find If I ignore them they go away.
Orgasminator
If it helps I also get flak from guys looking to experiment behind their partners back and then call me a fake because I won't help em out.
Still on behalf of the decent guys I apologize for the asses here, we are not related
Sex God
Quote by Pussinboots1
OMW Mike,
I know there are guys that wanna do the horizontal and some serious guy to guy thing....but did not know that guys also get these insulting mails....specially *the ones* when getting rejected.
Cyber Sympathy flying your way.
It's a funny thing PIB, people (couples & singles) all have the nicest things to say, then when it gets to the point of meeting, the topic of pics comes up, when someone sends you their pic and then asks for one of you, more often than not it is ok. BUT, 99% of the time when they ask for your pic "and we'll send you ours / mine" the moment you send yours, they disappear . . . gone. . . . nowhere to be seen, then one day, months later, they contact you again but have forgotten they have spoken to you before, and it all starts all over again . . . .
I can understand your reasons (to a certain extent) for not wanting to post pics. However... Most people (in my experience) want to see first, as do I. I am not going to have a long session of bouncing mails back and forth just to find the person that had my interest is not at all attractive. I am searching for a female for my girl and looks is way up there. Personality, compatibility, chemistry, etc all count but at the end of the day, we are not going to "play" with her personality - we are going to play with her body...
To not show pics is your prerogative but know that you decrease your chances of success here by around 70%. For me - no pic, no meet. Besides, it saves both parties a lot of possible wasted time. Would you buy a car without seeing what it looks like first? Bottom line, I firmly believe that this site should have rule - at least one public profile pic must be added to be a member. Remember, a pic can be of your legs, bra, bikini, anything! The manager of your spar will have to be the worlds greatest detective to recognise you by seeing a picture of your body from behind for example.
I don't think people who refuse pics are fake, but I do believe they have something to hide or often do not look at all like their description on their profile...
My two cents worth.
Sex God
Quote by Stamina
To not show pics is your prerogative but know that you decrease your chances of success here by around 70%. For me - no pic, no meet. Besides, it saves both parties a lot of possible wasted time. Would you buy a car without seeing what it looks like first? Bottom line, I firmly believe that this site should have rule - at least one public profile pic must be added to be a member. Remember, a pic can be of your legs, bra, bikini, anything!
My two cents worth.
Right, let's see your pictures of your bra and bikini . . .
:haha::rotflmao: and you reckon I have got issues . . . 
Quote by SDMR
To not show pics is your prerogative but know that you decrease your chances of success here by around 70%. For me - no pic, no meet. Besides, it saves both parties a lot of possible wasted time. Would you buy a car without seeing what it looks like first? Bottom line, I firmly believe that this site should have rule - at least one public profile pic must be added to be a member. Remember, a pic can be of your legs, bra, bikini, anything!
My two cents worth.
Right, let's see your pictures of your bra and bikini . . .
:haha::rotflmao: and you reckon I have got issues . . . Sending the invite... Hope you are sitting down.. Bwaa haaa haa!!
Sex God
Quote by Stamina
To not show pics is your prerogative but know that you decrease your chances of success here by around 70%. For me - no pic, no meet. Besides, it saves both parties a lot of possible wasted time. Would you buy a car without seeing what it looks like first? Bottom line, I firmly believe that this site should have rule - at least one public profile pic must be added to be a member. Remember, a pic can be of your legs, bra, bikini, anything!
My two cents worth.
Right, let's see your pictures of your bra and bikini . . .
:haha::rotflmao: and you reckon I have got issues . . . Sending the invite... Hope you are sitting down.. Bwaa haaa haa!!
ready and waiting . . . with my mouse cursor on the "publish to web" button . . . . :twisted:
OMW Stamina
To only want to play with a ladies body is fine...BUT when you put it the way you have...sounds to me as you want a SINGLE Lady as a TOY
Most ladies will tell you they like to know they are also appreciated for their minds and personality.
I personally could not play with anyone if I only *liked* their body but do not like their personality. Personality made a plays session to me.
@ SDMR .... Oh Boy , you wanted one of my pics back???? When am I going to get the rest of the pics to finish my puzzle HUH HUH?????
Sex God
Quote by Pussinboots1
OMW Stamina
To only want to play with a ladies body is fine...BUT when you put it the way you have...sounds to me as you want a SINGLE Lady as a TOY
Most ladies will tell you they like to know they are also appreciated for their minds and personality.
I personally could not play with anyone if I only *liked* their body but do not like their personality. Personality made a plays session to me.
@ SDMR .... Oh Boy , you wanted one of my pics back???? When am I going to get the rest of the pics to finish my puzzle HUH HUH?????
PIB, like in any good "play session" patience is key. . . . . .
Quote by SDMR
To not show pics is your prerogative but know that you decrease your chances of success here by around 70%. For me - no pic, no meet. Besides, it saves both parties a lot of possible wasted time. Would you buy a car without seeing what it looks like first? Bottom line, I firmly believe that this site should have rule - at least one public profile pic must be added to be a member. Remember, a pic can be of your legs, bra, bikini, anything!
My two cents worth.
Right, let's see your pictures of your bra and bikini . . .
:haha::rotflmao: and you reckon I have got issues . . . Sending the invite... Hope you are sitting down.. Bwaa haaa haa!!
ready and waiting . . . with my mouse cursor on the "publish to web" button . . . . :twisted:
They are already there... Just google " hairy crack in lacey Gstring".. My pics pop on the first page.. He he he
Quote by Pussinboots1
OMW Stamina
To only want to play with a ladies body is fine...BUT when you put it the way you have...sounds to me as you want a SINGLE Lady as a TOY
Most ladies will tell you they like to know they are also appreciated for their minds and personality.
I personally could not play with anyone if I only *liked* their body but do not like their personality. Personality made a plays session to me.
@ SDMR .... Oh Boy , you wanted one of my pics back???? When am I going to get the rest of the pics to finish my puzzle HUH HUH?????
No no.. You are correct, more than just looks. I just mean that looks are way up there. It is a combo, I would like both looks and personality, not really one without the other. So I do not want a sexy thang that irritates the hell out of us and also not a lovely lady that we have no sexual attraction to. You get what I mean. As for her being a toy... In a way yes but we would also like to be her toy. If this ever happens, all involved must benefit... Otherwise I could just get us a prossie. Pleasure all the way around. Satisfaction all the way around. All three must walk away with smiles and have zero regret...
Sex God
Quote by Pussinboots1
@ Stamina Yup I agree a 3 way smile when saying good bye for the evening.
hey, as long as there is some kind of 3 way, I would be smiling
