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Confusing Couples Profiles

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We noticed a trend where we engage with “couples” based on their profile and after a bit of chatting, we told that Mrs is “taking a break” or “not interested in playing”. So my question is why have a couple’s profile and waste everyone’s time chatting if only the guy is able to play. Just curious as it seems to be happening more often and are others experiencing the same

I agree totally - I am up-front about my situation, people that don't have the appetite for my situation are welcome to give me a miss. It just removes so much drama, and some people that have very strict no-single-or-playing-alone-male policies have actually connected with me. So much so that I'm meeting a couple for coffee soon that would have generally had nothing to do with me because of people like the ones you mention.

It's become too common on sh now wer couples profile and the wife is taking a break but I think the wife doesn't even know the couple profile is a trap to get you to talk

So we have a new way of dealing with it we say let's all meet and if she is ok with us playing we can go ahead and let's just say we waiting for one of those profiles to say ok

You absolutely right, it’s a trap to start chatting only to be asked a few days later if the guy can play alone cos the wife is not interested in the lifestyle! Why not just create a single profile and save everyone lots of time

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We noticed a trend where we engage with “couples” based on their profile and after a bit of chatting, we told that Mrs is “taking a break” or “not interested in playing”. So my question is why have a couple’s profile and waste everyone’s time chatting if only the guy is able to play. Just curious as it seems to be happening more often and are others experiencing the same

Must say we the same, only difference is in our case it is my man taking a break

And on the other side of the coin the amount of single women profiles.... Which start the bio off by saying "we are a couple"...

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And on the other side of the coin the amount of single women profiles.... Which start the bio off by saying "we are a couple"...

Oh don't get us started on that you talk and just before meeting or I forgot to tell you we are a couple

🤐 the whole site is 80 to 90 percent Bullshit.

There is way way way too much chatter that takes place only to get to find out the actual situation....tooooo many times the wife never knew that hubby is posting their privy pics across the internet, and he's convinced she'd like to be chatted up ...on her birthday out without her knowing or myself till 20minutes before meeting.

I just leave so much easier, I honestly don't get the level of stupidity 😒.

I know 3 couples, we have met and partied together , at clubs and PVT house parties who are in this situation. All of them state clearly on their profile that the wife is on a break. I have seen this often where the couple takes a break or just one partner and in time they return so I understand why they don't change their couple profile to single. But in some cases it's clear the guy is just being deceptive and that's stupid because the moment people feel they are being deceived it's game over . Now whether it's the fake couple profile , or fake pics or even real pics that are super outdated , when people feel deceived there is no chance of moving frustrating thing is they waist so much time for so many people

Purposely misleading people