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Condom with wife or not

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Do you condomize with your partner before playing with others?

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Sailacat
Warming the Bed
Hi all, we have been swinging for a few years now and this is still a question for us. Should we use a condom when we are together in case we may hook up with others later? Reason for this question is that while playing with another couple at a club I went down on his wife and I am pretty sure they had been busy before and he had come inside her. One cannot be totally sure, but I just suspected because of the taste. At the time I was unsure but thinking about it after got me more concerned. Then this brings up another question, how dodgy is it to have kissing and oral with swinging partners at a club?
Sailacat
Warming the Bed
Hi all, we have been swinging for a few years now and this is still a question for us. Should we use a condom when we are together in case we may hook up with others later? Reason for this question is that while playing with another couple at a club I went down on his wife and I am pretty sure they had been busy before and he had come inside her. One cannot be totally sure, but I just suspected because of the taste. At the time I was unsure but thinking about it after got me more concerned. Then this brings up another question, how dodgy is it to have kissing and oral with swinging partners at a club?
Unknown User
I used to insist on condoms for everyone and oral dams for oral sex. I will always remain safe, rather than sorry, I also believe that Oral sex should be done safely always...no excuses accepted. male or female.. There is long discussions on STD`s in former Forums that I do not want to go into once again. But if you scroll back to the 2014 Forums, when the Forums was very active and alive, you will find interesting discussions. Forums on and a lot of feed back on safe sex,specially when playing with unknown couples in clubs.
Unknown User
From a purely statistical and risk perspective, activities at clubs, glory holes, dogging & parties, all are very high risk instances of sexual activity. You generally don't know your playmates, one often doesn't ask for sexual and medical history in these contexts. The best and safest course of action is insisting on condoms during all activity, for all participants concerned, in all play and group situations.
Sailacat
Warming the Bed
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From a purely statistical and risk perspective, activities at clubs, glory holes, dogging & parties, all are very high risk instances of sexual activity. You generally don't know your playmates, one often doesn't ask for sexual and medical history in these contexts. The best and safest course of action is insisting on condoms during all activity, for all participants concerned, in all play and group situations.

We always condomize with others. That is not the question. Our question is whether couples condomize when with each other before playing with others? It seems to be an are which is often overlooked.