Cheese with my whine lol

23 Jul 2015

Me again to moan and in all the wrong ways lol So brace yourself lol As a longtime lifestyler it pains to have to give but wow this is mentally draining trying to hook up with people you think you could get along with. I read so many profiles that sound awesome only to have a qwerty fun msg, ignored Then there's the open minded adventurous people who live life and want to explore but don't do this that and the other, and have so many walls and boundaries built around them... Ironic Then there's the one liners mostly guys who see that even tho I'm bi I'm not looking for single guys The picture collectors The ones who wanna play but live on the coast Wow I could go on and on Yes of late I have had a few invited to pvt parties which have clashed with my Vanilla Social Events Calendar and the venues which are quite far from me, hence not being able to make it I have come to the conclusion that people are strange lol And if I can't beat them then I will kinda join them All my efforts with mails pictures etc seem to be in vain so I have given up and my profile has been amended accordingly Sad but true... Going to go with the flow hoping this will filter out the rubbish if not, well I don't lose lol Apologies for the downer of a topic but I truely am Gatvol lol Have an awesome day and thanks for listening... If u read it this far, msg me, I may thank you with Lunch lol Flamebouy

4 Aug 2015

So agree with you Our personal faves are the ones who are straight as per profile and then say well I (mrs) must lead them help them. If I wanted to be a teacher I would be, but worse is when they either don't take my right to say no thanks as answer or continually message me as if I don't remeber who they are, I may be blonde and older but haven't lost my marbles as yet, oh crap is this not facebook hahah, anyway would love to have some cheese with your wine mwahs

5 Aug 2015

hehhehe - there's this guy in a city close by, whom I've now turned down on this site, on two other swinging sites, on locanto and now he's created a new profile here and started by contacting us first! AGAIN!! Oh AND my husband has also turned him down via locanto twice! Their whole set up is weird (he is having an affair with his own sister in law, and they are swinging together) And can anyone say JERRY JERRY JERRY... Yikes - no thanks! And again NO THANKS! heh hehe