I Am One..or Not
Hell, I hope I am not one,but then, posting all these blogs,I do *cum* over as one.
And writing, what I do write about and fool about,IF NOT about My own short *Cummings*and my so screwed up life.
What am I to write about then?
As Serious blogs,Like the rules of swing ,single men, bi-curious females and such, soon becomes boring.
As it gets posted over and that is to us OLD TIMERS that is.
Yes, JOKES.....I do not see any Jokes section here..so NO JOKES.
Erotica...hell that I did just as I started on this site....but as the one Person said, who mailed me...you can only *do it* and tell it in so many words, then it becomes boring.
Hell, I stopped immediately,who needs such an ego deflating comment HUH?????
I ask you HUH?????
Well maybe it was just my writing...as I see that person NOT commenting on erotic blogs off the other people, sheesh.
See narcissistic me?????
Hell yeah......
Are there any benefits dating one? That will be a Narcissist???
What are the pitfalls of dating a narcissist?
Sure, there are benefits and pitfalls .........lets talk about that.
Benefits....
Of course there are benefits
You can also trick yourself into thinking there are benefits
To date a narcissist is to be sucked into that person's crazy, self-obsessed world—and if you buy into that, you're in for an EGO boost:
Sure YOU are!!!!!!
* You're* dating the most amazing person ever!
See it`s all about YOU.
It wears off, of course.
It starts to happen when you realize that the other person doesn't like YOU because you're amazing.
Oh noooooooooo
They like you because YOU think ......THEY are amazing.
They demand you tell them, they are amazing.
They ask you what you think of them constantly.
You have to keep their ego`s in a constant preening state.
Or else they pout! And the *YOU do not like/love me* starts...oh boy!!!!!!
So what are the pitfalls?
The constant "I" talk....
You start to confuse 'what's good for you' with 'what's good for us.'
You're lonely even when you're together.
And eventually, if you can't connect with the narcissist person you're dating, you'll look to connect with someone else.
Then it's a bad time for everyone.
The break-up...
*YOU are such a nasty person*!
*How dare you even think of dropping *ME* and then the *oh POOR ME* starts until a next sucker falls for that.....
But listen, let's not completely bash the self-interested.
Ever try to date someone who's the opposite???
That girl/man who says, 'No, no, I'm boring. Tell me more about you!'
I did. I dated a few.
I Lost interest immediately.
I had to talk about myself so much, I felt like a damn narcissist.
The solution then???
If you won't talk about yourself.
If you don't think you're at least somewhat interesting—how else am I supposed to learn about you?
How else am I supposed to connect?
Too much is too much, of course, but we're often quick to decide that some people have a personality disorder.
Like being a narcissist.
Sooooooooooo .......Lets find a middle way.
You talk about you,
I'll talk about me.
Eventually I'll talk about you and you'll talk about me.
Well .....we do have to start somewhere,BUT????? does this make Me a narcissist?
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