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We have been on a 2-year break and only recently started to be active on the site again. Our experience to date has been that loads of profiles (couples and single gents) are quick to have a chat and a giggle or two but when it finally comes to exchanging contact details it feels like people have become reluctant and don’t want to make friends in real life.

 

Of course, we won’t be meeting anyone in person while the Covid infections are out of control but it does feel like there has been a shift in the lifestyle community and that most people aren’t interested in making real-life friends compared to a few years ago… 


This then opens the question of what are your intentions and why are you on the site?

 

Are we the only ones that have made this observation or could we be missing something?

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I understand what you’re going through it’s painful really 

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It is so true. But then again, there are those who simply can't except that you don't want to take chance in the current times.

We both work for a living and sometimes that include weekends as well. Most times having a get together takes a bit more planning than just going to the shops.

Warming the Bed
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We as a couple dont think there is a shift in the lifestyle its just about the pandemic and the infections people are realy scared and if you had it or know about family who had it and maybe past away of if that makes it to be more cautios to meet and what to say have a play session we would rather spice things up with each other alone whatch porn play with toys just our 5 cents worth have a nice day

Warming the Bed
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For us, we made the decision to take a break whilst the epidemic is around.  Initially we tried the WA communication just to stay in touch.  But people eventually lost interest in chatting for the interim without knowing when it is safe to meet up again, so they got bored and stopped chatting.  


Our take is that people do not want to make the effort in chatting.  Rather sad but that is how our experience has been.   We believe if the person/couple is really interested and does not mind the wait and continue communications via WA or other medium then it will be worth the wait for when this epidemic is over. 


For now, we shall stay in our bubble and be patient. 

Be Safe.



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I will have my second shot in 35 days , add two weeks to that and we will be fully vaccinated.....got space in your bubble for 2 more 😁😁

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Very intresting topic.

Mrs Jade ...Problem is here that there are so many fake profiles here .1 clown creates 2 to 3 couple profiles and then vouch for one another .Weve been around the block to know .It takes some effort to work through the trash..

We have met amazing couples and love them to bits .

We were very fortunate so far .Covid has played a roll in the lifestyle .Thats a fact .We still meet n greet couples .

We expect them like ourselves to be vigalant .(Pardon were Afr but will try our best in Eng )

We have lost 2 gent friends in the lifestyle so far ..

We both had Covid twice but recovered fast..(Maybe cos were both from European decent Germania and Gaul (france and our ancestors survived the Black Death ..BubonicPlague.. Or we have some sort of luck on our side )Who will ever know 

Hubbly  we  make massive effort to meet couples and make friends ..Vouches will confirm)

Gauteng has hundreds of real honest couples Were very fortunate .Other areas its Tough esp Countryside

Were gonna wait the shot out until the growing pains are sorted 

We love Phuket and have to take the shot next year LOL