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Anal Sex for Beginners

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Can anybody help with any information for when you want to try anal sex or ass play for the first time. Is there any preparation that needs to be done, anything to look out for. This is really to help all the beginners in this.
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oh yes, there's lots to know - I'll mail you some links.
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our advise , take it very slow to start , lots of lube
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Oh boy,Sadly, Lee took the really elaborate discussion out of this topic...by sending you links but links do give good advice!! But lets do this anyway... Lube and LUBE and LUBE and patience can NOT be said enough!!!! Remember to also always have a clean bowel area.......I know noises and little surprises do happen....so expect them. Always use a condom..... and NEVER go from a anal penetration to a vaginal penetration!!!! You can how ever do it in reverse..from vaginal to anal. And remember if you want to play anally you should be prepared to also allow for anal yourself!!!
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Quote by Pussinboots1
Oh boy,Sadly, Lee took the really elaborate discussion out of this topic...by sending you links but links do give good advice!!
But lets do this anyway...
Lube and LUBE and LUBE and patience can NOT be said enough!!!!
Remember to also always have a clean bowel area.......I know noises and little surprises do happen....so expect them.
Always use a condom.....
and NEVER go from a anal penetration to a vaginal penetration!!!! You can how ever do it in reverse..from vaginal to anal.
And remember if you want to play anally you should be prepared to also allow for anal yourself!!!

i disagree a bit PIB , if she wants to try anal why would i need to accept anal penetration ?
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Sheesh K_and_S1 Seems I shouted the be prepared to also allow anal....or were you just horrified in thinking about It?? That I can understand,most men are scared of I am not saying you might be. Just making a statement of my own experiences. I also not saying if the lady asks for that type of play, the man should allow it either, but if the GENT pushes for anal and most do,I think they should be prepared to allow it as well. But the above statement of *be prepared to allow penetration*,I was thinking of Prostate stimulation from THE inside of the anal chancel more so than the outside prostate stimulation.I maybe should have said so. But we also cannot forget, there are men that allow some strap-on play!!!and it is a fantasy for some men as well.
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Great advise, thanks a lot!