Advice please

5 Mar 2014

Morning all, I am new to the lifestyle and would just like to know, when one is requested to chat on or BBM, is that how thing work, or is it something to avoid ? any help will be greatly appreciated Thank you Neil

5 Mar 2014

Neil if you chat on or bbm you give away your contact details, because its not difficult to trace you on a cell phone. Whisper on SH are the safest place to chat, cant trace your place of origin

5 Mar 2014

Be very careful when giving anyone you personal contact information. The internet is full of strange people that may be looking to get up to no good or simple can't take no for an answer. SwingingHeaven provides you with all the facilities you need to get to know someone in the early stages. You can mail, swap photo albums, chat live in the pool or in whisper and even open a pvt room and cam together. There is no reason you should be risking your security and that of your families until you are confident the person you are dealing with is to a greater extent who they claim to be and are truly someone you are interested in. Please also note that once you take your activities off site, you remove the site Administrators ability to monitor and take action against those that behave inappropriately. Regards Mike_

5 Mar 2014

Thank you so much for your advice wink