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I have been divorced and single for 14 years, and in that time I worried periodically whether I was addicted to sex. I have an almost insatiable drive and apparently - according to the many women I've been with - unusual stamina. I met my partner, friend and buddy a while ago. She had been on her own for about 4 years and I was invited to get rid of the cobwebs. It wasn't long before we were ripping each others' clothes off at every opportunity. We have even discarded any underclothes we used to wear for easier and quicker access. I have always been very confidant about my naked body and happily walk around nude - at the right place and time, of course! Now my partner is also very happy to disrobe in a crowd. Her confidence has changed immensely. It was like throwing a light switch! Now we are swinging, and have found enormous pleasure and satisfaction in the game. Pleasuring other couples and being pleasured by them is both of our ultimate fantasies come true. We do obide by our rules, amongst which are total trust in one another, no emotional bullshit or jealousy, and ensuring that we arrive as a couple and leave as a couple. I'm still trying to get my head around the amazing fact that there is this incredible population of swingers out there who are as equally addicted to sex as we are!! Not that I walk around with ahrd on all day..... but show me a pretty girl and the bump in my trousers could be embarrassing! And show her a well hung guy or a willing bi woman and she's instantly wet.
Well you guys *rock* !!! Enjoy your sexual evolution!!! NOT everyone is so lucky, and most married couples fall into a rut of vanilla sex on certain days and certain times! How boring their lives are to Us who has evolved. I say *VIVA* to us sex addicts!!!!!
Now all say together: Hallo my name is ............ and I am proud to be a sex addict... lol
Hello my name is oh hell to busy for that Ma Im coming
Yes, I am proud to be addicted to sex, and thank Aphrodite and Eros and any other God of Sex that there are people out there who want to share their enthusiasm and mutual addiction with us!!
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Well you guys *rock* !!!
Enjoy your sexual evolution!!!
NOT everyone is so lucky, and most married couples fall into a rut of vanilla sex on certain days and certain times!
How boring their lives are to Us who has evolved.
I say *VIVA* to us sex addicts!!!!!

We used to fall in the above group for about the past 4 years till beginning of this year! Fast quickies when the little ons are asleep, same type of foreplay same positions.... knew exactly which bottons to pushe to have hubbi come so I could turn over and also get some sleep.....
BUT for some reason since the beginning of this year all changed.....maybe it is simply because our youngest are much more selfhelping and does not need mom 24/7 anymore? Maybe it is simply cause hubbi's work hours are better and much less stressed?
Whichever it is, I simply can't get enought of sex! Now we've always entertained the fantasies of a 3some or even 4somes, but have never acted on it. Well after one steamy afternoon of sex with us sharing some ideas and fantasies again, we decided to find people with whom we can share these and voila! found the site! Now there's now holding us back!
Add a like button! I am so glad that people share their feelings and ideas here.... as mostly one think you are alone...untill you realise...you are NOT alone and there are others just like you! for example: the first time i attended a swingers party.... i met people just like me, who like doing and seeing the same things happening, enjoying all things sexual the first time a attended a sexpo - i didnt expect to see NORMAL people there, thought it would be weird... but it wasnt and i just saw normal people, young, old, slim, fat, tall, short, black and white...and many more...just ordinary people. So...are we addicted to sex? noooooo! we are just acting normal, but slightly different to those that hide the fact that they love sex as well! Anyway.... just enjoy it and have fun!
addicted?? I'm a nymphomaniac myself
I hear that all the time, but to find a good female here is difficult.
Dont try to hard, partners will find you and using the Forum is a great start
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Dont try to hard, partners will find you and using the Forum is a great start

true, i have gotten plenty of replies
nymphomaniac well i don't know what counts as a nymphomaniac's. but we have sex at least 5 to 6 times a week. and me self's can never stop thinking of sex, different ways to to and pls my wife and what ideas will make her hot. so do i count as addicted to sex or am i a nymphomaniac?
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nymphomaniac
well i don't know what counts as a nymphomaniac's. but we have sex at least 5 to 6 times a week. and me self's can never stop thinking of sex, different ways to to and pls my wife and what ideas will make her hot.
so do i count as addicted to sex or am i a nymphomaniac?

I think technically that would make you.... a guy?
Ok maybe a well-informed, sexually knowledgeable, highly motivated and possibly sexually well rounded guy...
but still... just a guy smile
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