Dating Stories

I’ve been sitting with a question. Not a cute, harmless, “what should I eat for dinner” question. No. This one has been pacing in my brain like it pays rent. You know the one: What are we actually doing here? Because let’s be honest… This is a swingers platform. Which, in theory, sounds like: ✨ Open-minded ✨ Adventurous ✨ “Let’s explore life” But in practice? It’s giving: " Hi, how are you?” Followed immediately by: “S...

So after 11 years of glorious singlehood, I decided to do something bold. Something brave. Something that should probably come with protective gear. I entered the dating scene again. Now let me tell you something about dating in your 40s. It’s a fascinating social experiment. You have wisdom, life experience, emotional intelligence… and yet somehow you’re still dealing with behaviour that feels like it was imported direct...