Is your porn habit hurting anyone? I love porn just as much as the next guy. I've been slapping the proverbial monkey since my early teens. Jacking off to glossy pages of the Hustler, borrowed from a friend, hidden in my closet. When the internet and smart phones came along it changed everything. Suddenly you could polish Darth Vader's helmet almost everywhere, you could send your mates and wife naughty pics. And the best was, it was all free. But this freedom came at a cost. I remember the spreads in the 'dirty' magazines being shot very professionally. Well lit, beautiful costumes and detailed studio's. Now it feels like some 'bitch' just gets dragged in and fucked on some guys old couch. It feels cheap, fake and really fucking lame. I find myself drawn more to amateur porn (a genre that has become more and more popular) and bdsm porn. The expressions at least 'feels' genuine. Porn frustrates me. I love stroking the beast, but I hate the porn that's available. And I hate the way the women are treated. There's just no good porn out there. Or so I thought. After watching HOT GIRLS WANTED, the movie and mini series, a new world opened up before me. Sites like Erika Lust, Crashpad, Heavenly Spire, the list goes on. These are erotic films made by women for women (and men) and that makes a huge difference.; 1) It's done really well. It has become an art form. An expression of lust, not just the hollow shell of a chocolate erection. 2) The women participating know exactly what they are involved with, they are treated really well and so they shine! 3) It feels unrushed, sensual. And it doesn't feel like I have to take a shower when I'm done watching it. Porn is teaching youngsters (like it did with me) how to behave and what to expect from sex. It creates false expectations of a false reality. I think porn hinders kids from enjoying sex to it's fullest. I still see it on this site. The terrible pics placed by people who don't know better. Photo's void of depth and feeling. No creativity, no personal expression. I see it in our experience with swingers. Especially men. What they feel they should do. How long they think they're supposed to last. What they think women like - all taught by porn. Minds shaped by an industry that doesn't give a fuck about your sexual experience, but about their pockets. Self image warped by a plastic mold melting in the sharp rays of an industry. No self awareness. So, is your porn habit hurting anyone...? If you don't like the way women are treated, or the quality of the porn, change the porn you watch. The options are out there. Click the right links. Consumers change the market, changes the demand, changes the world. You are the change you want. Only you can save mankind.