Join the most popular community of South African swingers now
Login

why do guys think that posting a pic of their dicks will enh

last reply
44 replies
5.6k views
10 watchers
15 likes
Swinging Heaven Logo 1 like
I mean its pretty funny how one thinks that a pic of his dick is enough to make a girl fall for him!a dick is a dick!and may sometime be a turn "OFF" rather than a turn "ON"!it shows that you are desperate and are trying too hard to impress
Swinging Heaven Logo 2 likes
More is less in my opinion. Sometimes it feels like sausage fest in here.
Swinging Heaven Logo 0 likes
Yes quite. You know on Saturday I played with a guy who NEVER showed me a single picture of his cock. I saw it for the first time in fact when he whipped it out. :twisted: Seriously it's NOT the most important thing about you. Not even for NSA sex.
Swinging Heaven Logo 1 like
No one likes a dick But everyone likes a pussy
Swinging Heaven Logo 0 likes
I think its the other way around also damn the ladies also show much more than is necessary its also not a pussy contest!
Swinging Heaven Logo 0 likes
Quote by ShArKi
I think its the other way around also damn the ladies also show much more than is necessary its also not a pussy contest!

I'm always amused when chicks bitch that they being treated like easy sluts, then you look at their pictures...
Damn! Girl, why you got to shove it in our faces? - WHY ARE YOU SURPRISED?!!
Forum Virgin
Swinging Heaven Logo 1 like
The primal urges of the male specie in nature is “ADVERTISE THEIR ASSETS”. Apparently the targeted market must require this aggressive marketing!!
My value proposition – “Personal attention”
Quote by Unknown
I mean its pretty funny how one thinks that a pic of his dick is enough to make a girl fall for him!a dick is a dick!and may sometime be a turn "OFF" rather than a turn "ON"!it shows that you are desperate and are trying too hard to impress

Swinging Heaven Logo 0 likes
I declare that WE DO NOT REQUIRE THE AGGRESSIVE MARKETING!! Hahahahaha :twisted:
Swinging Heaven Logo 0 likes
i castigated a young lass recently on her explicit pic. she was in tears as my retort was harsh. she thanked me afterwards. now she receives decent msgs and not the standard fare of " nice pussy, like to f.. etc, adnauseum. i play with women who are not linda lovelace in bed but i have an enjoyable time, nontheless. it really is not about the physical but the company that enhances the experience.
Warming the Bed
Swinging Heaven Logo 1 like
This is a adult site......
Orgasminator
Swinging Heaven Logo 0 likes
Quote by Seducemywife80
This is a adult site......

Then why do so many men act like children here playing show and tell
Warming the Bed
Swinging Heaven Logo 1 like
Quote by Mike_Pta
This is a adult site......

Then why do so many men act like children here playing show and tell
Says the guy with a cartoon profile pic.....LOL
Anyway, its and adult themed site, so expect the dicks,boobs,pussies etc.......it comes with the territory.
Swinging Heaven Logo 0 likes
@ VoyeurMan ( pasting in)........Says the guy with a cartoon profile pic.....LOL Actually Mike_Pta has a VERY nice likeable profile photo. This cartoon picture you mention is actually a Forum avatar Mike chose to identify his forum contributions with, just like mine is....
Orgasminator
Swinging Heaven Logo 3 likes
Quote by VoyeurMan
Says the guy with a cartoon profile pic.....LOL
Anyway, its and adult themed site, so expect the dicks,boobs,pussies etc.......it comes with the territory.

Firstly it's a forum avatar, the purpose of which is to display my personality. As per my profile I'm a geek so having a picture of deadpool fits in. I know its deadpool with his dick in a box giving it as gift to rogue but still, it crosses so many references and I really enjoy it.
2nd, granted this is an adult site but I have to ask one thing? You're an adult right? Do you walk through a bar trying to pick up woman with your dick hanging out your zipper. I mean it's also and adult place, you need to be 18 to enter (21 in some places) so surely it comes with the territory?
Lastly I want to say that this is a lifestyle site. I value my membership based on the great people I get to meet, not the titties I see. I've made some great friends on the site and that means more to me than the sex.
Swinging Heaven Logo 0 likes
3000 points to you dear! Nice to have guys like you around this place Mike!
Orgasminator
Swinging Heaven Logo 0 likes
Quote by LeeEC
3000 points to you dear! Nice to have guys like you around this place Mike!

Thanks, I have my moments
Warming the Bed
Swinging Heaven Logo 0 likes
Quote by Mike_Pta

Says the guy with a cartoon profile pic.....LOL
Anyway, its and adult themed site, so expect the dicks,boobs,pussies etc.......it comes with the territory.

Firstly it's a forum avatar, the purpose of which is to display my personality. As per my profile I'm a geek so having a picture of deadpool fits in. I know its deadpool with his dick in a box giving it as gift to rogue but still, it crosses so many references and I really enjoy it.
2nd, granted this is an adult site but I have to ask one thing? You're an adult right? Do you walk through a bar trying to pick up woman with your dick hanging out your zipper. I mean it's also and adult place, you need to be 18 to enter (21 in some places) so surely it comes with the territory?
Lastly I want to say that this is a lifestyle site. I value my membership based on the great people I get to meet, not the titties I see. I've made some great friends on the site and that means more to me than the sex.
Well good for you then.........other people might like it again, so deal with it. Unfortunately sites like these cant cater to everyone's preferences and needs in one shot.
Thats why there are sites like these, so that people who like to wipp out they're cocks and boobs and show them off can do it and not in a public bar. Some people have certain values and others not. Same as some people saying ` We will not respond to you without having a profile pic`, its my preference to keep my photos private until I feel comfortable with it and for other to share it wildly.
Point is Mike, everyone has different preferences to what they like to show or not. Its your choice to look at it or not......
Sex God
Swinging Heaven Logo 0 likes
And yet when certain other contributors took others "head on" they were told their fortunes ??????? I maybe need to go get the dictionary out and have another look at the meaning of the word "opinion" I might even check the word "undertone" as well!!! Voyuer man, some things are just not worth it, and yes, the next time you walk through a pub, make sure you have a "Drink" in your hand, or is that also not acceptable?
Orgasminator
Swinging Heaven Logo 0 likes
I'm not saying people can't play show and tell, it's an open site and everyone can express themselves how they want. However saying that, full frontal nudity does not make you an adult. Also I've been with couples that show everything on their pages and others who don't. Guess who I have better conversations with. Generally profiles with excessive voyeur pics are generally that, voyeurs and it doesn't process further than a few messages. So I'm just expressing my experience in the lifestyle and why I believe cock pics don't improve your odds.
Warming the Bed
Swinging Heaven Logo 1 like
Quote by SDMR
And yet when certain other contributors took others "head on" they were told their fortunes ???????
I maybe need to go get the dictionary out and have another look at the meaning of the word "opinion" I might even check the word "undertone" as well!!!
Voyuer man, some things are just not worth it, and yes, the next time you walk through a pub, make sure you have a "Drink" in your hand, or is that also not acceptable?

Ag guys Im not here to fight....men will be men and so be it.
LOL @ pub comment..........sure not going there to buy or sit and fruit.
Relax guys, I get what your saying.......hence I don't have any pics online.
Sex God
Swinging Heaven Logo 0 likes
Quote by Mike_Pta
Also I've been with couples that show everything on their pages and others who don't. Guess who I have better conversations with.

The ones who do more what YOU prefer!!!! I really hope you were not thinking the conversation was better because of their choices???? Its simply because you take a different approach to those profiles
Warming the Bed
Swinging Heaven Logo 0 likes
Quote by SDMR

Also I've been with couples that show everything on their pages and others who don't. Guess who I have better conversations with.

The ones who do more what YOU prefer!!!! I really hope you were not thinking the conversation was better because of their choices???? Its simply because you take a different approach to those profiles
I take every conversation with a pinch of salt.....like this one for instance ;)
Sex God
Swinging Heaven Logo 0 likes
Quote by VoyeurMan

Also I've been with couples that show everything on their pages and others who don't. Guess who I have better conversations with.

The ones who do more what YOU prefer!!!! I really hope you were not thinking the conversation was better because of their choices???? Its simply because you take a different approach to those profiles
I take every conversation with a pinch of salt.....like this one for instance ;)
Everything should be taken with salt, everything except for an open wound that is. rotflmao
Swinging Heaven Logo 0 likes
@ SDMR You should actually always keep salt handy wth an open wound...it is what is used on wounds these days.
Warming the Bed
Swinging Heaven Logo 0 likes
Quote by SDMR

Also I've been with couples that show everything on their pages and others who don't. Guess who I have better conversations with.

The ones who do more what YOU prefer!!!! I really hope you were not thinking the conversation was better because of their choices???? Its simply because you take a different approach to those profiles
I take every conversation with a pinch of salt.....like this one for instance ;)
Everything should be taken with salt, everything except for an open wound that is. rotflmao
Dont forget tequila....lol
Sex God
Swinging Heaven Logo 0 likes
Quote by Pussinboots1
@ SDMR
You should actually always keep salt handy wth an open wound...it is what is used on wounds these days.

Sounds less than comfortable!!!! :shock:
Sex God
Swinging Heaven Logo 0 likes
Quote by VoyeurMan

Also I've been with couples that show everything on their pages and others who don't. Guess who I have better conversations with.

The ones who do more what YOU prefer!!!! I really hope you were not thinking the conversation was better because of their choices???? Its simply because you take a different approach to those profiles
I take every conversation with a pinch of salt.....like this one for instance ;)
Everything should be taken with salt, everything except for an open wound that is. rotflmao
Dont forget tequila....lol
Nope, tequila is for girls!
Warming the Bed
Swinging Heaven Logo 0 likes
Quote by SDMR

Also I've been with couples that show everything on their pages and others who don't. Guess who I have better conversations with.

The ones who do more what YOU prefer!!!! I really hope you were not thinking the conversation was better because of their choices???? Its simply because you take a different approach to those profiles
I take every conversation with a pinch of salt.....like this one for instance ;)
Everything should be taken with salt, everything except for an open wound that is. rotflmao
Dont forget tequila....lol
Nope, tequila is for girls!
Thats how you pull girls LOL
Sex God
Swinging Heaven Logo 0 likes
Quote by VoyeurMan
Thats how you pull girls LOL

No No No!!!! Intoxicated "strange" is never a safe bet.
Warming the Bed
Swinging Heaven Logo 0 likes

I think guys, like myself, are just too proud to be recognized on these sites and their seldom seen dicks have the least chance of being recognized. Just my theory!