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How soon after lock down would you start playing

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Forum Virgin
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Dont think any play for us for atleast 2 months after zero infections 

Warming the Bed
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If zero infections is your benchmark, you will be waiting for ever then as this virus will not disappear until there is a vaccine and global immunisation. Total eradication is probably impossible resulting in small outbursts of the infection from time to time.

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We will just do voyerism and give shows and watch others for a start.

Forum Virgin
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Place like sSouth Korea almost on zero daily infections

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Place like sSouth Korea almost on zero daily infections

 If one can believe statistics. 

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Place like sSouth Korea almost on zero daily infections

 Their curve flattened really well, but their second wave has started up again

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Covid-19 is here. Just like Bird Flu / Swine Flu (H1N1) / HIV and many others. A viable programme to counter it wont be around for a while still (months; possibly years even). People will need to rationalize risk and reward. Same as many other transmittable diseases. The reality is if you're healthy - you have little to fear from Covid-19. So while 2 couples might be fit and healthy - and playtime is going to be amazing and the lifestyle aspect of their encounter will be rewarding; as we know, our society is jammed full of people with questionable immunity levels - One part of those 2 couples might have a granny that is 90 and frail that they visit once or twice a week. Or they might have a garden technician or domestic worker at home with TB or HIV and its those people that are vulnerable. 

This really is uncharted territory for social engagements. We may need to rethink how we interact moving forward.

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Covid-19 is here. Just like Bird Flu / Swine Flu (H1N1) / HIV and many others. A viable programme to counter it wont be around for a while still (months; possibly years even). People will need to rationalize risk and reward. Same as many other transmittable diseases. The reality is if you're healthy - you have little to fear from Covid-19. So while 2 couples might be fit and healthy - and playtime is going to be amazing and the lifestyle aspect of their encounter will be rewarding; as we know, our society is jammed full of people with questionable immunity levels - One part of those 2 couples might have a granny that is 90 and frail that they visit once or twice a week. Or they might have a garden technician or domestic worker at home with TB or HIV and its those people that are vulnerable. 
This really is uncharted territory for social engagements. We may need to rethink how we interact moving forward.

 Yes if you a coughing and spluttering proposing having sex wearing masks is going to be a no go.

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My thinking is, if you are going to break the social distancing recommendation, the further you do it from the lockdown the greater the probability of having an encounter with someone who has the virus. All of us locked down and being responsible by social distancing and limiting our exposure for those of us doing this we are going to assume we did not contract the virus during lockdown. The 14 days incubation period is over so if you have the virus you should be showing symptoms and if that's the case you should be recovering or.....So if the lockdown is ended in 2 weeks from now that would be the best time to party/play because everyone would have relative confidence in their status.

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Guys from a doctors point of rational, is the fact that the virus, is here , just like any other virus , even if we get vaccinated it will remain here, just like all the other virus ... :grin: if when you are weak it will catch up to us again in a later stage like aids ( still dangerous t.b, etc, so from now on its just another virus and there will be carriers who don't even know they have it as their immune system is keeping it at bay, so there is No safe time or partners, its a risk you want to take ?? ...........  Here is the thing,,, that can make you think,  :confused: what do you do if the population in your country, and other countries India, Africa, china japan etc, where family's have 8 to 10 to.. children where you cant feed them, they sleep in the streets, in front of shop doors, defecate & urinate there, begging during the day, stealing , etc how do you get rid of them ?? you cant lock them up, least of all shoot them , they don't have medical aid or money for doctors ?? suddenly in China no more deaths, or so they say did they win the struggle, if they did will that be repeated in all the over populated country's  ??

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Only people that has had the virus will be safe to play together, unless you have a screen between you like a glory hole or something! Then you have to sanitize the guys privates with 70% alcohol or condomise before and after play, sad but true.

 As this coronavirus is not sexually transmitted I am not sure why you mention "condomise" except that safe sex practice is always advised in the lifestyle to prevent other infections which are sexually transmitted.  There is no evidence yet that once you have had this coronavirus that you will not get infected again so anyone that has had the virus potentially could be infeced again and pass it on to others.  Interestingly we all played before COVID 19 despite South Africa having a seasonal influenza virus that causes 128,000 infections and 11,000 deaths annually in South Africa.

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There is no proof you can get it after you have had it, the condom is for safe sex or if the person touched himself and you stick it on your mouth you may get the virus, that is why hand washing is essential 

 There is also no proof that you cannot get the virus a second time. A quick google search of "COVID 19 reinfections" will bring up the debate in medical research around this.  The condom issue is the same as the gloves issue.  You might not catch the virus from the penis as its covered but get it from the condom that the person wearing has just touched with his hands.  But yes always practice safe sex.  Anyway once the pandemic passes it will be reasonably safe to return to play but in reality there are no guarantees that you will not catch bugs from time to time.  Good hygiene is the way forward.

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Unless the person on the doing the deed puts the condom on, on their side, all I'm saying it not business as usual  till we know more, staying safe is the main object, we don't know how long COVID 19 stays on all surfaces, its mostly speculations for now.

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There is no proof you can get it after you have had it, the condom is for safe sex or if the person touched himself and you stick it on your mouth you may get the virus, that is why hand washing is essential 
 There is also no proof that you cannot get the virus a second time. A quick google search of "COVID 19 reinfections" will bring up the debate in medical research around this.  The condom issue is the same as the gloves issue.  You might not catch the virus from the penis as its covered but get it from the condom that the person wearing has just touched with his hands.  But yes always practice safe sex.  Anyway once the pandemic passes it will be reasonably safe to return to play but in reality there are no guarantees that you will not catch bugs from time to time.  Good hygiene is the way forward.

 What I have read is there are 2 strains of the Virus, and the Reinfection is most likely catching the other strain, 

But ya I personally want to try wait 3 weeks after the Lock down if possible.

Forum Virgin
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Social distance taken into consideration - a group jerk off would be interesting to us - and would feel perfectly safe - specially if it is held outdoors in nature. After lockdown obviously.

Warming the Bed
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Very interesting topic and one that will have differing views based on perspective and information absorbed. 


We are still debating this internally as individuals as well as a couple. What we do know is this...............We have been chatting to a few people prior to the lockdown, and having met two of these people. We have been in regular contact with them via chatting and video calls. With as close to 100% certainty as possible, these two people have been in complete isolation as we have been, the odds of getting together with them post lockdown is a virtual certainty (pending the time frame after lockdown. The more time that passes after lockdown officially ends until we see them, the lower the probability we will see them). 

Those we have not chatted to or been in contact with during the lockdown (whom we can vett to a point there isolation) the odds of meeting up and playing with them are highly limited. For us, we have priorities, which our health is paramount (regardless of the fact that should we be infected we will more than likely recover), and we can not and will not jeopardize this unnecessarily. 

After the official end of the lockdown, we will more than likely remain at home, highly limiting our social interactions unless essential, for some time. Just our course of action. 

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ja selfde hier n mens kan nooit te versigtig wees nie

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It seems as though there will be no playing until such time lockdown is downgraded to level 3. Sadly this may be some time. 

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Well let's hope that level 3 cums quickly! A number of possibilities but it all depends on where you live. I am in the Midlands where infection rate is close to zero. Frustrating so I have to rely on hand starting!

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We will just do voyerism and give shows and watch others for a start.

 

Forum Virgin
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Yes knd of like social distant masturnation - oitdoors - New dimensions 


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enjoy these suggestions 

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Still stuck with the outdoors masturbation....anyone want to join me...

Forum Virgin
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I watch porn and some cams on this and wank and please myself


Warming the Bed
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Yep... me too. Have to hand start myself as sex with my spouse is but a pleasant memory. 

And I watch porn to get things going

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Probably best to play before the start of Level 3 / schools open.

Most who work from home etc have been isolated for long enough for the 'rona to have come and gone. A friend of mine and his wife who live overseas have had it. She was done in a week, he was out for about 5.

When Level 3 cometh its going to be rough for
  • Parents. Kids are petri dishes on legs so anyone with kids in school is a perpetual risk
  • Anyone who goes to the office regularly

as they are groups best avoided. 

At the same time the level of concern surprises me. Prior to lockdown (swinging) clubs were in full swing even after covid cases started popping up

Orgasminator
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Me and some friends will be doing a circle jerk

 on Saturday

Forum Virgin
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This is the time for gloryholes, closest we can get to social distancing

Warming the Bed
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Hi Darlings 

Most would agree that at some point everyone is going to get covid 19 , same as everyone has had flu ..... 

I for one would rather get it by having mindblowing sex , than from a atm someone sneezed on .... 

At least I have a fond memory then