The "Third"

Good evening to all in the Forum

I am sure that this would have been a topic of discussion somewhere in the past already, but I would like to get a fresh view /perspective on this. 

In my my 10 plus years of being part of this amazing lifestyle I have been fortunate enough to have been the third for couples who enjoy threesomes. 

It's always been my stance that it a privelage to be invited into the inner sanctuary of those couples. 

Now having spoken at length to the men of those couples it has been a common trend that I have picked up on... They love seeing their partners having fun with another guy... 

Now guys, is this still the case? 

And perhaps the ladies can also share their views on this. 

@SwingerPTA   As you said the topic is mentioned frequently, although it might not be under the same heading as yours.

I know there is a lot of males loving watching their hot lovey enjoying the spoils of a three some....

@PIB.  Indeed, would actually love to hear the female perspective on this.

Do they do it just to please hubby, or do they also find it a turn on to be with another man in front of hubby

@SwingersPTA  On this topic it sure is one hell of a turn on seeing your wife having fun with another guy its something that i cant explain it do to me and the wife we both share this kinkyness and actualy when we came into the lifestyle it wasnt on our to do list but things change i like it and also she liked it and here we are open for exploring i am not bi she is bi but boy do i like to share her o yes i do and it make sex between us lots of fun and interesting. And we have met lots of couples where the males feel the same about this .Its sure not for everybody but different strokes they say.

@SwingerPTA    Hmmm   I know there are ladies on here (part of a couples) who where the one to initiate the idea to their hubby of a third, and later to swing....I also know there is MANY ladies on here who do not even REALISE they are on here!!!!! A lot of Ladies do start out to allow a third to *please* their hubby!! BUT us, who is more experienced upon meeting them immediately picks up on/to this kind of situation!!! (yeah, even some of us, is a lady, joining as a third, it is not always just men)

I do hope your Fora picks up a bit thought.....

I KNOW for a fact, I LOVED to watch 2 men enjoy each other!!!!!

@CoupleNo9 cant agree with you more

I feel privelaged whenever invited by a couple to share in their fun and to share his wife/partner/girlfriend

Definitely not for everyone, but those who enjoy this specific scenario cant get enough of it

@SwingerPTA . So true we cant get enough of it and i like seeing my wifes naughty face and enjoying it 

@CoupleNo9 such a pity that the people that agree with me on these type of issues or almost always on the other side of the country.

@SwingerPTA .So true we tend to get that allot also with couples staying far away .

Also been privileged to be invited as a third a few times. The best part is watching the rugby or enjoying a braai before or after with hubby ;-) Become a friend of the couple and share other activities as well.

There are a few reasons why we enjoy seeing our wives with other guys...

Men are visual creatures. For some men, there is no better way to be turned on than watching another man having sex your wife. I feel extremely turned on knowing that another man thinks my wife is as hot as i do and i loves watching another man be pleased by my wife, especially when she gives them head, cause I know how good she is .

The thrill of the taboo. There are few things in our society as stigmatized as a husband whose wife is unfaithful.

The taboo is the thrill for a lot of guys, from the excitement of the forbidden and the naughty.

Hotwife' fetishists (Like Myself) are into the idea that offering your wife up for sexual encounters is a matter of pride. Many guys get a thrill, a sense of being "king" that they have a wife who is so Sexy / Hot that other men want to be with her, but who ultimately comes home with him, the husband. It gives guys the feeling that they are powerful and successful that they have such a sexy wife.

Some of the benefits as well Are:

Enhancers your relationship through openness .

Boost for the woman’s confidence.

The man feels good about his wife

Feelings of jealousy are eliminated

Enhances care and affection for the other partner

Physical satisfaction is attained