Oh Sam .... Keep quiet.... Sam no ....
Oh well I can't even keep myself quiet so here goes. .... From a point of experience this is a topic that gets discussed by white couples often . And it's a general finding I want to share with you.
Majority of white couples will put " same race only " and when engaging with others say that's our " golden" rule ...... When you talk to both of them.
Now here comes the kick in the teeth. I'm a very inquisitive girl and we have in the past probed couples on this. ( And yes usually after we "probed" them a couple of times)
I would talk to the lady about experiences and even show video of our interracial encounters. And more often then not she would be soaked and admit to having the desire for interracial play.
My hubby would do the same with the man and he would have just as much interest and desire.
So the one question that always gets the same answer is .... Why don't you just do it? And always it's some variation on " but he or she will see me differently" or " but I'm afraid to tell him or her "
And we have seen reactions from both sides .... Bad reactions when we tell them that they both have that desire....
The problem is that there are still for most a very real racial line , and no Matter how big the desire they don't want to be seen wanting to cross it .
It is in my humble opinion the single greatest mistake people who profess to be open minded can make. The whole reason for this lifestyle is exploring desires....
And in my experience it's not a question of " once you go black ... Yada yada " the biggest turn on is the feeling ( that was drilled in since birth) that I shouldn't do this . It's a thrill , it's that last social norm that we can break .
But most will never act on that , and that is truly sad ....
And in closing for those that want to try I leave this thought.... I'm white , my hubby is white we have had many interracial play dates. .... And I do not crave BBC more . A cock is a cock .... It all depends on the "dick" attached to it
