As promissed...Little female encounter tips... IF you ladies have more to add, PLEASE DO!
It is not always possible to feel sexually attracted to another lady. Just as we are not always sexually attracted towards all men and vice versa.
Just like in a heterosexual situation one of the ladies will take the lead, that does NOT make her the *butch* We females LIKE each other for being just that, being Female, soft skin, tantalizing breasts, sexy butt, kissable lips, and droopy bedroom eyes. Soft hands and smooth skin all over. A well groomed womanly female is really sexy. THOSE big BUTCH females TRYING to be male, wearing male clothes just does NOT do it for me personally. If I want to have sex with a male look alike I want that person to be male, or a sissy boy at least. BUT this is my preference, there is lesbians who loves a butch. EACH to her own I always say.
Sometimes the men MUST just sit back and let the ladies play, without interfering!!!
OR best of all, PLAY with each other Male on Male.....heck, copy the ladies moves, and see where you end up and how you may enjoy this type of play...be adventurous !!!!!!
In a sexual situation where both ladies are married, they mostly end up *going down* and think that this is what the other lady would like. Rarely or not most females do not do anything else.
I SAY NO!!! A person should start off with seduction first. BUT each of us should also remember that all the other ladies DIFFER from yourself. And you must play with her accordingly.
Let me explain, a Lady can have a protruding long clit and small little labia. Someone else might have a little hideaway clit where the labia is fleshy and puffy. Some ladies dislike direct stimulation to their clit, and some Need direct stimulation. Some ladies have large breast with hideaway flat little nipples mostly more areola, where another may have little boobs with large protruding nipples and areola , once again one lady might like breast play, some not so much. They might like kissing or not.
It is up to you to ASK or investigate what she likes and dislike.
When you know you are going to play with the lady, you will find her sensual and sexy, you will like her smell and the way she moves, talks and laughs.
Seduce her, just touch and seduce her in a way what YOU as a female would like being done to yourself.
Then smooth things out with extra little tricks.
When the evening starts at the meet up to play..THINGS is still FAR from the bedroom and a BED.....
When you greet your guest/s. Hold her hand and kiss her fingers, suck one or more fingers into your mouth, flick your tongue over the tips of her knuckles or the tips of her fingers, kiss her wrist, or suck on it lightly stroke your thumb over her palm in little circles.
During the early evening/day...The next seduction moves/ motions is NOT done all at once, do it over a period of the evening, make her pant and wonder WHEN & WHAT is going to happen. NEVER give her a moment to forget that you are watching and touching her with lust, and sexy intention.
If she is sitting in a chair move around her, drag your hand over her shoulders when you move past her on your way somewhere, bend down run your lips over her cheek, or kiss her on top of her little tip of nose.
Sitting across from her, drag your foot down her leg....sitting next to her, run your fingers into her hair, while chatting, touch her as much as possible. make long intense eye contact.
Straddle her lap or pull her to straddle your lap, while making out, kissing and touching...
Stroke her arm, running your fingers down her back, slightly squeeze her bottom, nuzzle her neck, give her little licks on her earlobes, just breath into her ear, run your hand and fingers over her chin and neck pull her hair very lightly.
If you both are standing or moving around, push her against the wall, with your one hand wrapped around her throat without hurting her of course, keep her head still, push your pelvis against hers, or slip your one leg between her thighs, rock/thrust into her and rub and grind into her pussy with your leg holding her in place, you might even go as far as to hold her both her hands up against the wall. Whisper into her ear WHAT you would like to DO with her and to her, Dip your fingers into and on top of her cleavage and run your fingers slowly over those sexy mounds, nuzzle her neck. Take her shirt of, or slip the top of her dress down....
ONCE you guys are in the bedroom, undress her slowly, with a LOT of touching, licks and kisses. KEEP her thong, panty in situ REMOVE that Just before you want to do more to her.....
Crawl over her (cat like) nuzzle/kiss/lick/smell and give little pinches while moving to straddle her, rub and kiss and lick and suck and MOAN if you want to...MAKE her moan. BUT always watch what she flinches from and when and to what she arches her back and body into a motion/movement you are making. Suck her toes, kiss her behind her knees, kiss her thighs suck on her tummy, lift her arms and inhale her armpits, even lick and kiss her armpits, kiss and suck the inside of her elbows.
While straddling her,rock and grind your own pussy while playing and kissing her lips and hair and neck and ears....slide around her breasts, knead them, pull on her nipples rub her torso and ribs, lick and suck her breast not just her nipples, while thumbing and pulling lightly on one, twist the other one always alternate between them.
Move/slide down and lie on top of her, breath WITH her, holding her to you..... slide your pelvis over her, thrust into her, and Thrust into her pelvis with your one leg as you straddle her, move down her body and REMOVE her panty with your mouth and teeth, BY NOW this lady should be dripping wet as you will be !!!!! Try and keep as much eye contact as possible.
Let her lie on her tummy and give her back the same treatment.....light kisses/licks/ rubs and little scratches and pinches....knead her buttocks kiss them and lick them....IF YOU ARE into anal, do some pucker kisses and licks (ME, I am not into this part) but I will tease her pucker with my fingers.....slide your hand down over her pussy JUST hold it in your hand (let it lie and rest in your hand) WITHOUT any movements or rubs.....you might give it a squeeze now and again.....
Always tell HER what you like about her, what she taste like and smell like....how her skin feel ...and WHAT YOU ENJOY about her.
ALLOW her to also touch you, also give her the freedom to explore you.
NEXT instalment will be GENITAL play....if you guys need this??
Just kidding ......
