Loosing friends

Hi all. I just want to find out from other couples if they experienced the same thing. We basically had 3 different encounters with friends. On the night it looks like the wife is enjoying every minute of it and in two of the cases it was her idea. But the next day these friends are deleted and blocked on all forms of social media and we are not allowed to see those friends again and I'm not allowed to mention to her anything about swinging. What's up with the women? 

It sounds like you guys are really not doing this thing as a team.

You have to have an IN-depth TEAM discussion before the event.  You need to figure out what the plan is, what your signals are. She may be enjoying herself but how you are behaving during this experience is making her feel very insecure - and it's easy to blame the other people for those feelings.  If you'd like to talk - this is my field - I'd be happy to chat a bit and see if I can give you some insights.