we are in a committed relationship and do not do full swing, or cross the colour boundary, and despise aggressive or un hygienic and or pushy people that try to change our views above. we do not get pissed ,swear and fuck around but love 2 have loads of clean sober or sometimes tipsy fun and love 2 watch and be watched with a bit of soft swing, and who knows some hand relieve on participants and vice versa is sometimes exactly why we do this.