Of late hubby seldom, if ever, logs into our profile so you would probably find me to be the one online. He is aware and still more than happy with us being on Swingers Heaven.

I (the HER of PLAYHER) therefore thought it is time for an update of our profile, yes it will still result in the same “ends”.

We are a married couple of some years now and our kids are all out of the house doing their own thing who blessed us with 6 grandchildren. Our permanent residence is in Centurion, but we spend as much time as possible on the South Coast,  I love the sea!!!

I am a fun and outgoing person with a naughty streak and a sucker for a dare, well most of the time. I would like to believe I even can hold a good conversation. I am evenly comfortable with beach parties - in bikinis or informal occasions - in shorts, T-shirt, bare feet or casual events in a dress or jeans with a top …… yes, I will arrive with shoes and also with black tie events - in ballroom gowns, hair done and all. I enjoy camping in a tent just as much as a stay in a 5* hotel and anything in between.

Why are we here? Looking for a guy (single or married) who would be interested in adult fun. Hubby is straight and will not actively participate, he will not even get naked. But on my insistence, he will be “around” coz I want him to see how much I enjoy the pleasure that a man can give me. The short and the long is he can’t (long story). We made the conscious decision to have kids, this led to hard work rather than fun to conceive our 4 kids (an even longer story).  No, he is not jealous, he rather enjoys watching me getting taken.  

I am not here for bedhopping so please guys don’t make contact today and after a short chat then expect us to meet the immediately or a few days later.

 If you interested, we would chat on THIS SITE to get to know each other better. If all boxes check during the chats and it leads to a mutual decision to take it to the next level, we will arrange a meeting at a place and time that suits all. IE: Checking Boxes is not a list of questions and answers. It is rather a case of chatting about likes, dislikes, experiences, how one would act in certain scenarios and small talk. That is how I find out more about potential playmates like he would expect of me. If find out that we are after the same ways and means to get to the “ENDS”, we will plan for a meet. During the meet we find mutual physical attraction between us, we can decide how and when he will put a smile on dial.

PLEASE NOTE:

I DON’T CAM AND WILL NOT REQUEST ANYONE TO DO THAT EITHER. In the past when I did, it came back and bit me in the ass (another long story). I promised myself NEVER AGAIN so please respect that.

As mentioned, I keep all lifestyle chats to Swingers Heaven, so please don’t ask me, to chat on any other platform or to call, not even for a 3 sec call.

Our profile is verified, for those who’s are not or don’t know how it worked for me. More than one date stamped photo had to be submitted, then after attending a meet and greet where a moderator was present, only after an introduction to moderator verified our profile.

Discretions and privacy are a must and are guaranteed form our side.