My wife and I have a great sex life, with her dressing up in lingerie and heels and me taking some tasteful photos which I post on an profile. 

We have never experienced any voyeurism, swinging or swopping, but we have spoken about it shyly and might be willing to go there if the right opportunity arises. We have spoken about going to a club to check it out, but are still too tentative to do so. 

We are both professionals and we have children, so discretion is of utmost importance to us. We are non-smokers and wife hates smoking, so this will be a deal breaker. I don't drink, my wife only occassionally. We are both fit with wife being an avid runner, but we are both sporting a few over 40 kgs. We are however well kept and would be looking for the same. 

Lets see what happens.