I am looking for long term fun(friend with benefits), I am not planning to sleep with the whole of the Western Cape. I am a lady and like to be treated like one. I am not desperate! An yes, I am picky. If I don't respond to you email in 2 days, I am not interested. I do not cross the colour line sorry, whites only. I am not looking for a relationship I am married, and do have a life. I like to be discreet and do need the same in return. I am STD free and like to keep it that way. If you looking for a quickie once off I am not that one.