am interested in matured young ladies 40 and above, or BBW ladies. that being said the lady has to be an intelligent that can hold normal conversation that has nothing to do with sex, so we can seat at a coffee shop and chat before exploring each others fantasies as adults, am not interested in married women looking to play on the side/ if your hubby is aware you want to play then i respect that/ if you are younger that above mentioned age plz move on, am not your boyfriend so keep your insecurities at home/ we are here to play with each other and somehow make friends if possible/ gay men plz note that am straight and not Bi, during the day is my main time as i have son .